Guys,
Is a girl refusing to have anal sex a deal breaker in a relationship with you? Just curious.
Meagan ("Meg"")
No, because it's not a priority with me or a big desire of mine (at least with women). In fact, it would probably only happen in a relationship of mine if the woman offered/asked. I'm not likely to ask for it myself. I think you saw that in action in my story "Christmas in April" which you recently commented on.0toWvI4PmHfRwxzB
In fact, most of the stories where I have male-female anal are probably with the woman inviting rather than the man asking. "Snow Plowed" and "Wedding Interrupted 3 : Model Client" are like that, too.
Not a "Deal Breaker" but a disappointment.
Anal is fantastic. I can still have sex if he doesn't like your pussy at that time of the month. He gets his rocks off I get an orgasm
I really don't care for it. I find it distracting.
Nope, not a deal breaker.
If it's something both partners want to share, great.
If it's something that is more important to one than the relationship itself, it ain't much of a relationship.
Nope not at all. I've never met a woman that likes it
Love anal, just give my kitty and my boobs what they need...giggles
Hell no. Love anal sex giving and recieving.
No. But I mat do a few things in the bedroom to see if she may want to try it. May give her hole a few licks, during tantra, the pinky tips in, maybe she wants to experiment?
It was, but no longer - however, it’s only on the menu for mmmmm a select group!
So, I like anal, but if a guy told me my having anal sex wit him was a dealbreaker, that in itself would be a dealbreaker for me.
Hell, no - that would be selfish and disrespectful of her body and what she likes. If it's not voluntary, it's just .
No, not a deal breaker. I prefer anal sex but if a lady doesn’t want it, it is fine with me. I got a few other holes to play with.
Not at all.
Although, I have found that girls that are not willing to try it at all are usually not very good in bed anyways. It's more of a correlation thing. The degree to which the ass is involved varies, but I have found that the more open the girl is to anal play, the more adventurous she is not only in sex but in life in general.
I love anal but its not a deal breaker.
not at all. but its a pity...
In the long term, it would be very disappointing.
Particularly because anal sex really isn’t that important to end a relationship for if all other things check out, but total refusal to do it would still mean that I’m deprived of something that I enjoy. I would have to consider finding it somewhere else in that case.
There also seems to be a correlation between less open attitudes towards anal sex and general closed-mindedness in bed. I have not known anyone who would make an exception to this rule. Women who have no desire to be experimental in bed are not really what I am looking for.
Not a deal breaker if all the other sex was hot.
I have had anal with more than one woman and it was usually fine unless she was turned off by it.
What is really hot is when they ask for it or the best is when you are fucking and you slip out and she rocks her hips and guides your cock into her ass. Now that is hot.
Linda dear, where are you?
Nope, it's not what I go for.
But if she wants it, I am happy to do it.
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Meg,
Hi. No, not a deal breaker for me.
not for me. i love it but if the woman doesn't, it's a right of hers and there are several other ways to have fun.
