My fiance is 49 years old and has a daughter the same age as me; I’m 25. I’ve already met her and to be honest we haven’t really bonded nor got to know each other.
We’ll be married in 2 months and I want things between me and his daughter to be comfortable and good. I hope that she’ll be able to understand that I do love her father.
It’s understandable for her to probably not like the idea that her father and I met through a singles tour held by A Foreign Affair and the fact that I am foreign.
But what her father and I have is something that’s real and serious. I genuinely fell in love with him and I want to be happy by his side; I want to make him happy as well.
I just want to get some advice or suggestions on how I should approach his daughter… we are the same age but our situation is completely different.
Please, give me some ideas on how I should make things with her.
Back out now.
The daughter will never accept you as a friend; you've been thrust upon her. She'll never recognize you as a step mother; you're the same age as her. She'll likely see you as a pan handling money grasper who is trying to do her out of her inheritance; which is highly likely.
He will have erectile disfunction within ten years needing pills to get it up to satisfy you. You will end up having affairs with men your own age to get some physical satisfaction. He'll find out and be devastated and want a divorce, whereupon you will get most of his assets and deny the daughter her rightful inheritance.
You'll also leave him in a lonely impoverished existence until he dies, dependent on the daughter whose inheritance you stole.
Do the decent thing and get back on the boat.
I agree with LuvitAll,
Sounds like a hot mess, first your the same age, no she doesn't want to be pals or accept you as a step mother. Two you are foreign, so she will think you are after a marriage visa to stay in her country. I don't know but if I was you I would get out of it. I remember at 25 I was more concerned with what career I was looking at changing. Yikes.
Sign a prenup where you get nothing, should prove to his daughter its love and nothing else...
