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Keeping long distance sexy

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Curiosity14
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Hey,
In my current relationship, due to my work and her studies, we are often apart for extended periods of time (up to four months). When we are together our sex life is amazing. However when we are apart, other than a few occasional dirty pictures, our love life is stagnant... any suggestions? (straight male, 22)
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Quote by trinket

You’ve never heard of Skype? Live action dude.


After two or three times that would get so old and annoying. Who has the time to give their undivided attention to a screen all the time? It's unnatural.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Better than watching porn by yourself I’d say.


Trinket noooooooooooo.... Please try and get out of the house. You know I wish you'd get out of the funk you're in. Go meet some Crocodile Dundee fuck. Put your guard down for once at let some outback steak dick put your shrimp on his barbie.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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Been there, and am there now actually. Two words: date night. Set aside a Friday or Saturday night to talk and reconnect, and let things develop. I think phone sex is good for a couple - you have to learn new ways to connect. Gets you out of your comfort zone and into each other's heads (and ears). It's hot nad fun and brings you closer together.
sweet_as_candy
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Quote by browncoffee
PHONE SEXXXXXXX


Agree!
Rider47
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Random snap chats, pics and short unexpected bids.
browncoffee
Coco Pop
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Quote by Jimwillhavefun


Okay, here's my number. Call me


you're not my type.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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Quote by browncoffee


you're not my type.


What is your type?
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
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Quote by Verbal


What is your type?


me.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Beffer
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This was my problem from 2006 to 2013. My girlfriend was only home with me during the summer months and away at school the other 9 months. It got more and more difficult to keep a long-distance relationship going, and she finally met someone else where she went to grad school, and I got dumped. :-(
browncoffee
Coco Pop
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Quote by Verbal


What is your type?


Tw cen mt condensed.
Melissa999
Υπηρέτης της Αφροδίτης
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Quote by Beffer
This was my problem from 2006 to 2013. My girlfriend was only home with me during the summer months and away at school the other 9 months. It got more and more difficult to keep a long-distance relationship going, and she finally met someone else where she went to grad school, and I got dumped. :-(


The Problem isn't one of keeping it sexy. It's one of what's really going on where the eye can't see, and then sooner or later you find out they've been making other plans and you're on the wrong end of a dumping.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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Quote by browncoffee


Tw cen mt condensed.


At least you're not Comic Sans.



Finally done with the long distance thing! It is SO worth the wait. And in this case it was a long wait. Phone sex is not a substitute, but it sure does help. So does lots and lots of texting.
LYFBUZ
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Phone sex with a British accent. 'nuff said.
sweet_as_candy
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Maybe try and watch the same porn video together while chatting. That could add to the heat pretty quickly...
Guest
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Maybe try and watch the same porn video together while chatting. That could add to the heat pretty quickly...



browncoffee
Coco Pop
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Quote by LYFBUZ
Phone sex with a British accent. 'nuff said.


on an entirely unrelated topic, I have a British accent though I think I usually sound bored to death.
Guest
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Go on long distance dates. Pick the same TV dinner from the frozen aisle and the same movie and watch it "together"

Read the same books so that there is lots to talk about.


As far as keeping a sex life interesting while there is distance. I believe that requires a bit more creativity. Send her some sexy lingerie and ask for pictures in certain risky locations. Send each other toys and how you want the other to use them. Skype, phone, email.
sweet_as_candy
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Quote by sunshinehigh
Go on long distance dates. Pick the same TV dinner from the frozen aisle and the same movie and watch it "together"

Read the same books so that there is lots to talk about.


As far as keeping a sex life interesting while there is distance. I believe that requires a bit more creativity. Send her some sexy lingerie and ask for pictures in certain risky locations. Send each other toys and how you want the other to use them. Skype, phone, email.


Great tips!

Just make sure you share the same taste in movies
Guest
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Just watch Braveheart together once in a a while....