I've been thinking about monogamy and such lately and its got me wondering. Just how far people are willing to go to satisfy their sexual desires.
One sexual encounter can destroy a marriage. Would it be worth it then just to scratch that itch?
Myself I believe in being faithful even in a bad relationship. If I really wasn't satisfied then I would end the relationship and move on. Why drag out something that isn't working anymore?
I completely agree with you there, if the relationship isnt working and you feel the need to cheat then why not just move on?
I have a friend who says she can see why people do cheat, and she thinks that its more acceptable for a man to cheat than a woman. I reckon its bullshit, doesnt matter who are you, who you're with, how much of a high sex drive you have (and i have quite a high sex drive), i wouldnt and dont think its worth jeopardising a relationship for a one off.
lmao nice guys.. you crack me up...
Sometimes you love your S/O no less but your sex life to no avail wasn't what it once was. Going outside your marriage for sex and even passion may not be the wisest choice but sometimes is a choice you give in to. I think if you give in to that choice it must be under circumstances where you are completely discrete and you're S/O must never ever know. People who feel guilty and confess are selfish - suck up the guilt and keep it to yourself if you intend to stay with your S/O but must be sexually satisfied by other means occasionally.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! How far would I go?????
Thats such a loaded question for someone like me or someone in my situation..........
I have been with my husband for 19 years, we have 2 boys they are 7 and 8
His theory of Making Love is a 8 min session that he cums and I barley get wet.........
When I speak with him about this I get the line "Satisfy's Me"
So yeah what am I sposed to do then???? Go out and look for it???
I am a D.J. and get shit loads of offers but have never cheated on him, I have come to the point of maybe taking the step but chicken out each and every time.
He has cheated on me once in our marriage that I know of and I still have issues with it but I deal
I deal with it for one reason........... The 2 little pairs of eyes that look at me each day and fill my heart full of love.......
Hurting them would kill me in many ways, Their happiness means more to me than my own so I just deal
So one avenue I have found is writing, the things I have written are things I fantasize about....
I love reading erotica and so thank full for finding Lush, it has all a person could want, Awesome writers, Great Friends and most of all it keeps my inner demons at bay LOL
But dammmmm I really wanna get laid properly - the toys just are not cutting it anymore LOL
Not too many guys jumping on this thread…lol
I have known many people over the years that have scratched that itch, both men and women and they all had their own reasons why.
I wouldn't try very hard. I like easy pickins.
Well I'm not certain that the question is well worded. While I admit that there is certainly more to a relationship that sex, it is one of the higher rating categories to me. The question is also based on an assumption that one "stray" will end a relationship. That may be true in most, but certainly not all, relationships. Monogamy, or lack thereof, is also only part of the equation.
How far I would be willing to go to satisfy my sexual desires doesn't necessarily relate to my willingness to be unfaithful. Put simply, a relationship that repeatedly fails to satisfy my sexual desires will result in an increased willingness to be unfaithful. That does not, however, necessarily mean I would instantly begin actively looking for illicit affairs. The more likely result is that I would become more open to act on opportunities that may arise that I would not have considered or would have avoided or turned down had I been in a sexually satisfying relationship.
So how far would I go to be satisfied? Probably only as far as convenience and fortuitous circumstances allow. Professionals and "escorts" are not an acceptable alternative in any circumstance in my own selective set or morals.
If the question is simply would or not you would remain faithful when in a relationship where you continuously find yourself sexually dissatisfied, my answer would be "no". Would I be better off ending such a relationship rather than becoming unfaithful? Possibly, but this, like so many other other questions in life, quickly become complicated, and there are pros and cons to both choices.
The most important thing to consider when faced with the choice is whether or not you are willing to accept the consequences of your decision.
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
How far would I go?
I'd walk a thousand miles for one of Tech Goddess' smiles. And even farther for that thing she does with her tongue.
Reasons could range from physical through to mental/emotional. In such circumstances it is possible, nay, almost necessary to satisfy one's libido elsewhere - and it may need to be done carefully, in secret to spare the feelings of the partner. The person satisfying his/her sexual need will never get a sympathetic hearing in todays hypocritical world, so they must work it out alone and deal with any resultant guilt as best they can.
Allegedly. 
You are such a sweetie. And yes, I should apologise for doubting the libido of the glorious female.
Gee, now I'm all choked up. Not used to such gushing praise. 
