I was with a friend the other day, she was telling me how he got busted having an affair, her husband used her mobile phone and had seen a text from her lover. I wanted to say “Well that was stupid” but didn’t. I have heard others getting caught for the same thing or emails.
My question is...
Don't people know how to be discreet? Are they blinded by lust or perhaps they are just plain dumb?
Algol
I also think some people want to get caught because it's easier than saying "I want out."
Sounds like You were discreet. I would have said, "What? did you eat a bowl of stupid for breakfast?"
Honestly, the thing that is stupid is having an affair i just don't get it? if you're not happy in your relationship or marriage then why pretend? it doesn't make you feel any better in the end especially when you get caught and end up looking like the bad guy....
It seems apparent to me ...
IF you are happily married/attached ... you don't look around ...
IF you are unhappily married/attached ... you are always looking ....
of course - there are open relationships ... but that's a whole other kettle of something ....
Fantasy of the mind can be just as powerful as an all out affair ... quite sure some of the stories on here are someones fantasy ... and great fun to write ...
The cyber world is a great outlet for personal expression ... but can u trust yourself the same way in cyber space ?