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When we Spot a Man With an Erection, Why Do We Do This?

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As women, nothing is creepier than a man who gets hard in public, who then tries to make sure every woman sees it and (of course) admires it. Yuk!

But when I see a well dressed man, who is avoiding eye contact, and who is trying to avoid being noticed, I am drawn to him. If I find him hot, and I'm somewhere like an elevator where he's trapped, I try to brush against his hard dick, to get a better idea of what's he's got. It's erotic as hell, it's a way I can show interest, and who knows where it might lead?

Does any one else feel this way? Why shouldn't a woman show interest? One guy was so sure of himself that after I felt his massive boner, he put his hand between my thighs (I had a tailored pants suit on) to see of I was wet. He could tell I was very wet, so he invited me to his office where he locked the door, bent me over a chair, pushed my soaked panties aside, and slid in balls deep into my pussy. After a few strokes, I knew he'd cum soon, but I wanted my fun too, so I sucked him off till he climaxed in my mouth. As close to a perfect cock as I've even had
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Interesting.

I don't think I've ever seen a random guy get hard in public - for any reason.
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If I find him hot, and I'm somewhere like an elevator where he's trapped, I try to brush against his hard dick, to get a better idea of what's he's got.


Sounds a bit rapey.


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The Bee's Knees
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"not me..." said the?

Say. Her. Name.


Marx Sister
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Ultimately, I find this really creepy. Sexually engaging someone you don't know is a dubious area in the first place, and should probably be limited to places where such behavior is expected (night clubs, sex clubs, private parties of the right tone, etc.). If you try to engage anyone sexually while they feel vulnerable, embarrassed or trapped - like this guy could well have been - then it is a distinct possibility that you are actually sexually assaulting them.
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I have had so many erections in public and I've never wanted anyone to see , so I sit down or cover up with something until it's gone.
Rookie Scribe
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As recent news makes clear, women have become prey for the sexual predators out there, and this has to end. But it is also wrong that a man with an erection should feel embarrassed and desperate to hide it. Erections can be purely involuntary. So why should he need to hide it? It's almost like we still believe in witches. Breastfeeding used to be a crime in public.

I don't pretend to have a simple answer to these complex problems, but let's not consider ourselves a "civilized" or "advanced" society, OK?
Weaver of Words
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I'm with the others on this. What you do is as bad as the men who prey on women. Not to mention the actual risks you are taking to your own safety and health. For all you know, a man could take your advances as an okay to do what he wants to you, including beating you or going way beyond just regular sex. Or he could have HIV or AIDS or some other STD. Men are easy, so you should have no problem finding someone in a little less risky situation, unless all the people who know you, know you well.
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Okay, couple of things.

#1: That's sexual harassment. If some dude noticed your nipples were hard and kept trying to brush against them, you'd slap him and have him arrested, wouldn't you? As well you should. And you should receive the same treatment for treating a man like a piece of meat. *Especially* when he's "shy" or "trying to avoid eye contact." That's him telling you that he doesn't want to be hard or groped! And you just do it anyway? What kind of Trumpian sicko does that?

#2: Unless the dude is pitching a tent, how would you even tell? This sounds like some half-cocked (no pun intended) bs you came up with while daydreaming or watching porn.
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I'm with the others on this. What you do is as bad as the men who prey on women. Not to mention the actual risks you are taking to your own safety and health. For all you know, a man could take your advances as an okay to do what he wants to you, including beating you or going way beyond just regular sex. Or he could have HIV or AIDS or some other STD. Men are easy, so you should have no problem finding someone in a little less risky situation, unless all the people who know you, know you well.


She made it sound as if she had never seen this man before and no idea who he was, but I find it difficult to ride an elevator everyday and not see people weekly and even know someone that has spoken of him.
Weaver of Words
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She made it sound as if she had never seen this man before and no idea who he was, but I find it difficult to ride an elevator everyday and not see people weekly and even know someone that has spoken of him.

She never said it was in an elevator she took everyday. She could have been in the building to see another tenant or there for an interview. It could even have been a store where he was a manager and she was just shopping. Having said all that, her story sounds like it came out of Penthouse Letters.

And he rather contradicts herself anyway, saying that she finds guys that show off their hard ons creepy, then says the guy that fucked her was very sure of himself. Doesn't seem to be someone trying to hide their hard on to me.
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Quote by LadyLovesBallz
As recent news makes clear, women have become prey for the sexual predators out there, and this has to end. But it is also wrong that a man with an erection should feel embarrassed and desperate to hide it. Erections can be purely involuntary. So why should he need to hide it? It's almost like we still believe in witches. Breastfeeding used to be a crime in public.

I don't pretend to have a simple answer to these complex problems, but let's not consider ourselves a "civilized" or "advanced" society, OK?


Oh give it a rest. You're far from concerned with men's rights. LOL
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Quote by adele

She never said it was in an elevator she took everyday. She could have been in the building to see another tenant or there for an interview. It could even have been a store where he was a manager and she was just shopping. Having said all that, her story sounds like it came out of Penthouse Letters.

And he rather contradicts herself anyway, saying that she finds guys that show off their hard ons creepy, then says the guy that fucked her was very sure of himself. Doesn't seem to be someone trying to hide their hard on to me.


It's only creepy if they look you in the eyes. This guy didn't look at her, which is hard to believe being in an elevator.
Rainbow Warrior
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I rarely if ever look at guys' crotches, and I don't especially want to know if a stranger has an erection. How would I even know it was because of me and not some residual Viagra thing. It's bad enough my cousin points it out to me when her son pitches a tent in his swim trunks when he sees me in a bikini!
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I have seen men with a public erection and I have approached him assuming he was attractive. Not to rub between his legs to find out what he has. Just to let him know I could be interested.

The results never ended up in his office or hotel. Maybe that will happen another time.
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Quote by LadyLovesBallz
As women, nothing is creepier than a man who gets hard in public, who then tries to make sure every woman sees it and (of course) admires it. Yuk!


Any guy doing what is described above is a flasher and will probably get arrested.

99.999% of men would do their best to conceal an erection should it happen in public. And really, if the guy is over 25 years old that's not normally going to happen without some stimulation. But if it does, guys will use books, laptops, newspapers, caps, hats, anything they can find to cover it up until it subsides.

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If a man is an exhibitionist and dangles his ding dong in public, almost any woman will report him to the police. If a woman is an exhibitionist and shows her goods in public, most men will just give them a look and go on. Or if she's got a good body and looks good, she can get a job as a stripper.
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Quote by LadyLovesBallz
As women, nothing is creepier than a man who gets hard in public, who then tries to make sure every woman sees it and (of course) admires it. Yuk!

But when I see a well dressed man, who is avoiding eye contact, and who is trying to avoid being noticed, I am drawn to him. If I find him hot, and I'm somewhere like an elevator where he's trapped, I try to brush against his hard dick, to get a better idea of what's he's got. It's erotic as hell, it's a way I can show interest, and who knows where it might lead?

Does any one else feel this way? Why shouldn't a woman show interest? One guy was so sure of himself that after I felt his massive boner, he put his hand between my thighs (I had a tailored pants suit on) to see of I was wet. He could tell I was very wet, so he invited me to his office where he locked the door, bent me over a chair, pushed my soaked panties aside, and slid in balls deep into my pussy. After a few strokes, I knew he'd cum soon, but I wanted my fun too, so I sucked him off till he climaxed in my mouth. As close to a perfect cock as I've even had



A thousand claps to you. Honesly i could never get such courage to explore a guy in such a way