I think many of us arrive at a point in time, while being a lush member, that they cant hangout in the chat rooms or post in the forums, due to numerous reasons.
Since these are the easiest ways to befriend & chat with new people (not new lush members, here NEW means people new to them), it becomes difficult to befriend people altogether.
This thread is dedicated to such old lushies, who are seeking new friends.
Just like me, have your bio filled so that people can decide if they could befriend you.
Best wishes!
Here "cant" may have meant "dont wanna"
Hasnt got anything to do with subscription.
Oh, i dont know about others, I am whimsical. Lol
I get FRs from regular members all the time. Sadly, none of the mods ever ask me for a FR. Can't fathom why only non-mods find me friend-worthy.
I don't get many friends on Lush, because I don't play the silly games. I tend to tell it like it is and have little patience for the ridiculous. I'm here to write, and not
banter the fool.
I think people are more interested in reading and writing rather than making friends on these kind of sites. I mean, why would you make friends with someone who lives thousands of miles away and you'll never see in real life? Surely it would be more preferable to make friends with those in your vicinity, people you can see and touch and have real-life sex with.
Real life or virtual life, we befriend people because we like to talk with them, share our emotions. Atleast thats my opinion.
A shallow pond, does not make for friends. I befriend people on Lush who have similar views and like to write. My sex life is not open for discussion and that is part of keeping my privacy. I have a family who takes up my love and I don't have time to play Ding-Dong School.
This is a great idea.
Well, sell myself, sell myself....
I've been here four years to write, I've neglected the more sociable side to it. Hopefully I get better with each new story and this place is actually very dear to me now. If I wish I knew one thing when I joined, it would be: be more sociable.
So if any new Lushies need someone to show them round (in the non-biblical sense), hit me up and I'll show you where the good stuff is.
I used to love to go into chat a lot. But once you stop for a while, you barely know anyone when you return. It is a very different experience.
But may I suggest a way to make a friend with someone cool? This site has a real strength in that it has an almost amazing number of wonderful writers.
Do some reading and find someone you really like to read. Tell them that in your comments on their stories. Often they make great friends too.
I myself find these Forums a great place to get to know good people. The hardest person to find for me, is someone who likes to play with me in a chat box....sssshhhhhh!!! ;)
If I find someone interesting here I am more than likely will start chatting with them first. Then most likely if I think that we have enough in common I send a friend request. Also I am very respectful of other users here. Anyone is more than welcome to check out my profile
~Waves shyly~
Ahem.... I've been here for like 6 years, and pretty regularly too. Though, admittedly, I've shied away from forums and the like on the most part. It's not so much new lushies I have a problem with befriending, its more so the old school ones. I never made it into the cool kids group and has been forever stuck on the outside.... xD So I propose a connecting said "old lushies" together again.
P.S I do only wear pink on Wednesday, why wont you all love me!!!!! ~sulks alone in corner~ xD
Much love Violet,
online sex is fantasy , but online feelings can be real .....