Subs do you enjoy some pain during sex?
How much 0 - 10
What are your limits on punishment?
Are you ok with hand/paddle/slipper/hairbrush/belt/crop/flogger?
which is your favorite?
Hope multipart questions are ok
The amount of pain I enjoy is variable. If zero is none and 10 is the worst pain imaginable, I'd say it starts to get less fun around six and by eight it's safeword time. Seeing how much I can endure is good for me, and I like to push myself. I expect punishment to hurt. It's like hot pepper. Some people like it and some don't. A paddle hurts, how a person reacts to it is within the person, not the paddle. My limit is that it not leave bruises that show. I like the feeling of sitting on a well spanked bottom. I'm okay with hands, paddles, hairbrushes, belts, straps, crops, tawses, and floggers and canes if they're used right. I like the feeling of intimacy that I get from a hand, but I also really like straps and belts. Floggers less so, but crops are good too. Why do you ask?
Multi part questions are okay.
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I was hoping that starting a conversation among submissives (especially those of us who enjoy heated bottoms). All of us feel differently about the amounts and types of pain we enjoy when it's no longer working me to that point of flying above it. Or it's not just about the impact and connection to the Dom then it's enough for me. I would love to be able to set a quantifiable measurement to it but the truth is it is different for me with each experience. I've never been caned and it sounds intense but lol there goes that tingle. LOL, So I'm sure I would not be safewording it right off the bat at least.
as long as there are no perm marks left I am fine
5-6, it depends on what's being done
Anything which can seriously hurt is a no-no
A a guy, a few hard whacks with a riding crop during missionary sex really adds to the experience, though it can speed things up a bit too much.
My wife likes to tie me down on a bench and spank me, she loves seeing my bum cheeks glow red, if I am really lucky she then pegs me with one of her strap ons. She knows my limits with pain and rarely exceeds them.
I love pain in sex a lot. Specially tit torture and spanking.
My limit is no blood or permanent mark on body.
Forgive me if I'm intruding as I'm not a sub.
My rule is I want to hurt, not harm. I'm looking for sensation that potentiates pleasure, not so much that it wipes it out. I've never been with a pain pig, not sure I would want to.
And, as a number of you have said, no blood, no marks that show (we all have to work, after all), no permanent marks of any kind.
That seems consistent across the divide, yes?
An incredibly talented, but modest Polar Bear, often mischievous, but never malicious!
I actually like when there are marks left afterwards. It makes me feel proud to wear bruises or see blood. I prefer grabbing and restraints with slapping and a few whips. I would stop the pain at an 8 but don’t like to upset either
I agree with the person who said as long as no permanent marks are left we can try anything hehe
I like pain during sex. Spanking is one of my favorites and I choose flogger and paddle over others. Flogger when I feel like playing around and paddle as more serious one, however if it is applied for punishment it would be damn painful!!!
I have only one limit. To be punished in public as anyone can see.
its a tough call. i do like pain, even if its just pulling my nipples hard when we are out. If he is enjoying it by pushing the boundaries, then i enjoy it. but sometimes, the pain is so intense, its hard to manage.
Pain is a tricky but desirable thing for me. It is always desired at some level, even if that is a bit of nipple torture, but can go all the way up to a very hard paddling or flogging that leaves bruises to be proud of. How much depends on my state of mind, and how much prep my Domme has done. A slow build-up will always have me taking more and more. Bottom line, I seem to always be chasing sub-space, and the situation and play always determines whether I find it or not.
I love pain and sex. Clamps are a great start bit nipple and clit. I crave to be spanked bare hand, crop or floggers are my favorite, over the knee or secured to something are all hot. I have a high pain threshold just now permanent marks on my body. To make my ass glow cherry red will get me off for sure. I also like to be restrained during sex. It is all good for me.
I have a higher pain tolerance during sex than anyone I've ever spoken with on the subject or have ever slept with, but even I have limits. Long before my limit though, I have to put aside the sexual pleasure and enjoy the pain and the process of enduring and getting through it, which can then throw a lot of fuel on the fire that is my sexual enjoyment. I'm usually bored by any pain that's less than a 4, and between a 6 and 7 is where I am likely to need to switch gears and focus on the pain. I'd agree with others who've said that 8 is more or less the point where I have to stop altogether.
I'm into pretty much whatever tools my partner (whomever that may be in this case) is. Sometimes nipple clamps can be a bit much for me, but they've only ever been unmanageable the time some asshole put alligator clips on my nipples when I didn't strictly know better. Floggers are probably my favorite where impact is concerned. I don't like paddles, cricket bats, or slippers, but that's all purely based in the imagery associated with it. Legitimate whips, cats o'nine tails, and similar are wonderful as long as whomever is holding them knows how to cause me sufficient pain without injuring me. I can be tied to myself, tied to a pole, or locked in some medieval/renaissance style stocks.
Just because the title of this thread does ask about "subs' views" It may be worth noting that I'm about as switchy as it gets, so I'm perfectly happy to be on the other side of things as well.
