Hi Everyone, I am,an aspiring top and working to get better at it. One thing that I learned already is that a good top needs to know what he wants and be able to express it,very clearly. Play scenes can collapse from going to far, but it appears that for more inexperienced tops they more often collapse because the story gets stuck, is not though thru, becomes improvised and inconsistent.
One thing I love doing is to ask questions that require my bottom to talk about things they don't want to, disclose thoughs they want to keep secret. The kind of questions a normal person would reply: "that's none of you business". So the domination is to force yourself into someone's secret thoughts.
Is there a specific name for this aspect of kink? How would you call that? What terms would you use to research it better?
Tom
Advanced Wordsmith
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