I posted this in the ASK GIRLS. Probably a mistake so if there is a moderator if they want to get rid of the other post I'll leave this one here if that's OK.
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I stumbled on this a few years ago just before the wife died. I posted the technique and one site has close to a million hits (so far) and a LOT of feedback, posts, IM, and emails so I know it works for MOST couples. Of course some already know about this. If you don't try it. It'll blow your minds and change your relationship!!
Try it and let everybody know if it worked for you. If it didn't - keep trying.
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THE TECHNIQUE
Quick Backgrounder
The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. Right after an orgasm they are even MORE sensitive! The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up (you can be a LOT rougher with it-don't take that literally!)! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.
Basic Technique ideas:
#1: Make sure she urinates just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from a build-up of fluid in the Skeene glands and gives you an "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then AND HERE'S THE FUN PART ... repeat every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 or double that if she';s in great shape!!! She may have trouble walking the next day but Man 0 Man is it worth it.
So UNLIKE THE CLIT when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. She will G-GASM over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded. Do NOT take them to scared. Easy to do but NOT recommended.
At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.
One word of warning, for the guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.
Let me know if and / or how it worked for you.
To clarify ...
The instructions are, basically to begin to rub (back&forth, up&down, round&round - whatever) and as you feel her begin to react I say rub harder. Well that is true but more important but perhaps I wasn't clear about this, as her reactions indicate increased levels of arousal not only rub harder but FASTER too.
The position of her face down over the pillows leaves your arm in a unique position to move about as fast as it possibly can and maintain that speed for as long as your stamina holds out. When you tire - SWITCH ARMS !!
The most important message though here is the SPEED at which you are prodding her G. The FASTER the BETTER. The FASTER the CRAZIER she'll get. Slow down and the G-Gasms will feel very different and THAT style may be more to her liking - SOMETIMES. The intensity WILL increase as the speed of your thumb increases.
You HAVE TO gauge her reaction though. Very important. Don't just slide in and begin to jack-hammer her unless you have done this before and she is "advanced" enough that she will begin to orgasms almost immediately.
Starting out you MUST build up PRESSURE AND SPEED as you feel her become more and more aroused, OK. Pay attention (you young bucks need to start that now) to what SHE is doing. If she seems in pain and you know the diff between the turned on faces and body moves and the "This is starting to HURT" faces and body movements, then you need to back off and do something else for awhile. Try this another night. Don't continue if her reaction is really negative. On the other hand if she has never come this way before she may feel it is too intense and try and pull away or get you to stop BEFORE anything too much happens. It is up to you to gauge where she is on that scale. A little scared at how fast and intense the feeling is OR this hurts. If she is just nervous then that's where I suggest HOLD HER DOWN and continue. She'll be glad you did.
Just use some common sense and as YOU (the doer) are NOT in a mad rush to cum yourself during this technique it is up to you to keep a clear head and watch for her reactions - good OR bad and act appropriately.
Many women report that using this technique they have completely LOST IT in a way they never have before. Sexual intensity with a trusted lover is typically a nice build up and on those wild nights a bit of extra stuff as the build up to orgasms happens. With this TECHNIQUE you can drive her right out of her fucking mind and keep doing it until YOU decide to stop. This really does FREAK a lot of women out so be CAREFUL with your new POWER. You've got a back up arm/thumb and she only has one rather tender little twat so again when I say SPEED AND PRESSURE remember WHAT you are bashing. Take her to that magic place where, it seems her entire body is in a whole orgasm mode but don't abuse the trust or go overboard with the pressure. She WILL feel beat up the next day if you're too rough. You want her remembering the constant G-GASMS and not having to walk around bent over in pain the next day because she is bruised and battered down there and IN there, OK? Also be careful around her period as the uterus is a little more sensitive at this time of the month anyway due to all the contractions and cramping going on in that process.
So remember when you get this going and she is trying to thrash her way out of her skin and neighbors two blocks away are calling 911 because it sounds like a murder in progress .... you can PLAY with her G-GASMS. You can (once she has cum once this way) slide her into the next one slowly buy using a SLOW RUB or you can BANG her into the next G-Gasms by starting your thumb again HARD AND FAST. You can bring her off in waves of FAST INTENSE series and then slow down a bit. Change arms, nibble the back of her neck, smack her bum, suck slowly down the backs of her thighs and inside her knees - do everything and anything you can think of do increase the OTHER sensations she is feeling either while you are G-ing her or in those few seconds or minute that you're not and allowing her to catch her breath. Don't forget she is WOMAN so as you drive her crazy one way be gentle and tender in those other ways so that she is feeling completely loved and adored. Despite what you SEE her doing when you are G-Spotting her she IS still aware of her surroundings (a little anyway) so keep up the kisses, nibbles, licks and sucking so she feels "devoured" - inside and out.
By using a Variety of moves, speeds, pressures and positions you can make this unique and utterly mind-boggling technique an adventure each and every time you do it for (TO ?) her. Not only each time you do this can be a series of different sensations for her but each time she CUMs can be a different sensation from the last. Apparently just changing thumb angles can change the "feel" of the G-Gasm so you have the options of experimenting in an almost unlimited way here. Variety is THE spice of life. Not only do ya'll have the greatest technique known to human sexuality but you can mix and match according to her moods, time of the month or just do the S&MB&D thingie and do 'er any way YOU want. Either or ANY way you do do it will be awesome for HER and will bring you closer together - or your money back !!
