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First time with a man at 42 very nervous

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Hi. This guy I met @ Adultfriendfinder and I have been chatting for a few weeks, in very sexy and specific detail (he said he's interested in deep throating and giving me a massage, among other things), and I'm coming over to his house Saturday. Both of us have become bicurious only recently and neither of us have had sex with a man before --I'm 42, he's 50-- and we're both excited but nervous.

Does anyone have any advice? I was thinking of having a drink beforehand to calm my nerves but am afraid it might suppress my sex drive.

Thanks,
Jack
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Just in case you wanted to wash your mouth out - afterwards.
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Just in case you wanted to wash your mouth out - afterwards.


The level of experiential honesty you're displaying here is admirable.

You should get in there too. It would be a real ménage à twats.
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Be careful..tell a friend where u will be

Me I would go for coffee first

People are very different in person than on the internet

That being said u know more than most people

Above all he will be nervous too

Remember what made u want him

Be you..be safe and have fun

The first meeting can be beyond wonderful

The best thing about being both your ages...not as many hang ups

Have a spectacular first!
" smile..it is the second best thing to do with your LIPS!"
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Meet at an adult movie theater or a motel that rents by the hour and watch porn together?

Or get a massage together somewhere.

Rookie Scribe
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Unfortunately, he canceled. Hoping if it will be on again soon. Late cancellations at these websites are too familiar for me, I shouldn't be surprised.

Thank you for your responses; they were helpful
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Hope it works out for you.
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Unfortunately, he canceled. Hoping if it will be on again soon. Late cancellations at these websites are too familiar for me, I shouldn't be surprised.

Thank you for your responses; they were helpful



Any chance he's also here on lush?