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When your girl gives you a hand job, how do you like it?
do you like a light touch or do you prefer a firm grip?
Do you like to be squeezed around the head or is that too sensitive?
lube or no lube?
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I love when she starts with a light touch, just gently rubbing, almost teasing. Especially that spot on the underside just below the head...for me, the head is definitely not the most sensitive part. Then slowly, but steadily increasing her speed and grip. Definitely prefer lube and plenty of it. Also like it when she puts her head on my stomach and just watches the reaction her hands are creating.
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Oh yeah some good porn mutual HJ to start with
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It's a combination starting with light grazing of the fingernails up and down the shaft and across the head. As precum starts to ooze out using it to lubricate and start stroking up and down and over the head.
Gradually increasing the intensity until you orgasm!
colin123
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plenty of lube for me when my wife gives me a handjob
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No lube and start out light, almost teasing. The head is by far the most sensitive spot so the focus is best there but giving brief attention to other areas (rubbing the balls, squeezing low on the shaft, scratching the thighs) all adds to the experience. Just a little bit of variety in technique and rhythm goes a long way towards making it an enjoyable experience.

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Advanced Wordsmith
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Corkscrew. Firm. Definitely touch the head. The best is when she teases you by pretending she will suck it, only to pull back and continue pumping.
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Oh sorry, I though this was a cooking thread. Making hamburger patties, or rolling dough, things like that.
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I'd love one...thank you!
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
Oh sorry, I though this was a cooking thread. Making hamburger patties, or rolling dough, things like that.


Sighs... you just didn't pay attention. It's about manicures.
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I've never been into plain handjobs. No matter how skilfully a girl can do it, I can always do it better myself. Using her hand to complement a blowjob on the other hand can feel amazing when done properly.
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Lube please. Not necessarily at the beginning but fairly early in the proceedings. Soft caresses are wonderful. Gentle work with her fingernails is very hot. Alternating soft caresses and firm, hard tugs. Ahe can squeeze my tip, I enjoy that. Dirty, teasing talk is wonderful too. And if practice doesn't always lead to perfect I do think practice can help a partner discover, no matter what the man says, what he truly wants. It's terrific when a woman enjoys getting me off that way.
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Quote by Allar
I've never been into plain handjobs. No matter how skilfully a girl can do it, I can always do it better myself. Using her hand to complement a blowjob on the other hand can feel amazing when done properly.


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Lube please. Not necessarily at the beginning but fairly early in the proceedings. Soft caresses are wonderful. Gentle work with her fingernails is very hot. Alternating soft caresses and firm, hard tugs. Ahe can squeeze my tip, I enjoy that. Dirty, teasing talk is wonderful too. And if practice doesn't always lead to perfect I do think practice can help a partner discover, no matter what the man says, what he truly wants. It's terrific when a woman enjoys getting me off that way.


My own position toward handjobs varies between those two quotes.

As Allar mentioned, there's rarely any point for a girl to stimulate my cock solely with her hand when she could also alternate with her mouth. And when I'm not in a proper relationship and only see the same girl every once in a while, chances are that I'll want something quite a bit more inspired and energetic (which essentially means fucking her the good old way).

Handjobs can still be fun for the sake of variety when I'm in a committed relationship however, particularly when combined with a sensual oil massage; they're also nice during wax-play (especially when I'm tied up to a chair). Then I prefer ralphbranca's approach: a lot of lube/oil, soft/gentle caresses combined with harder tugs, dirty/teasing talk, etc.
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Quote by pixiegirl
When your girl gives you a hand job, how do you like it?
do you like a light touch or do you prefer a firm grip?
Do you like to be squeezed around the head or is that too sensitive?
lube or no lube?


I only had one hand job from a girl, and she used a very light touch. It was quite different from when I do it, but I got off pretty quickly by it. Lube isn't really necessary for me, because my foreskin acts as a natural lubricant, and also I emit lots of pre-cum (Cowper's fluid) to let it slide should the foreskin ever get out from between her fingers and my shaft/head.
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I like a light touch with a little squeeze added occasionally and a little lubrication so it slides easy in her palm...her hand sliding along the shaft, not gripping it. With some women it feels like they're trying to yank it off smile
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yes love it.when woman slowly then faster up n down my cock.
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Firm grip, changes in speed, no lube, done with passion.
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
Oh sorry, I though this was a cooking thread. Making hamburger patties, or rolling dough, things like that.


Now that's funny!
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It really helps to have some lube. I prefer a lighter grip and being able to help out by thrusting into her hand. So I prefer to be standing.
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Lube with a tight grip.
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I prefer spit or a little bit of lube.

The firmness depends on how hard I am, but an even pace with passionate kissing gets me off.

I also prfer to be rubbed around the base instead of the head, until im letting loose.
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I'm uncut and prefer no lube when receiving a handjob.

Changes in pressure and tempo are great and I really love being brought to the edge of orgasm then her slowing the tempo down so I don't cum then building back up again. When done correctly leads to a great orgasm!
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Slow and sensual, and allow me to elaborate.

I'm usually wearing something tight when I lounge around the house, so when she feels the urge to play, I enjoy it when she comes up behind me, and runs her hands up and down my body gently. A little teasing can go a long way, so when her hands settle below the waist, I love it when she keeps getting closer and closer, but avoids contact until she just absolutely needs to touch.

After some fondling, I love when she peels the shorts off of me, and watches my manhood stretch out and become fully erect. I prefer lube, and love it when she starts with a barely there grip, surrounding me. Slowly sliding her hand up and down, until my first involuntary twitch. She then places a thumb on the tip, and swivels her hand with her fingers just under the rim, and that beautiful, well placed thumb sliding side to side. Once I twitch again, she goes back to that barely there up and down motion. She repeats this process until her grip is tight, and I... well, you know, haha. And that's how I like it.

She had me show her how I like it once, and she's shown me how she likes it. It's a good time.
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
Oh sorry, I though this was a cooking thread. Making hamburger patties, or rolling dough, things like that.



Yep!
Wild at Heart
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Unless I'm at a massage parlor hand jobs are best when the girl does it with her mouth.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Hand jobs are awesome. My girl has such a soft touch and uses lube. The fascinated look on her face is also so exciting and the way she tries different strokes, grips and speeds keeps me edging. She loves it when I cum
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I love it when she keeps a light grip on the head only. I have very powerful orgasms like that.