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Hello, what would you suggest and give tips on for a first time anal play for a couple?
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First time with anal sex
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I wish I could give you some ;) If or when I find some I'll let you know.. Good luck...
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My friend asking me for some tips as he is going for have first night with a escort girl from dubaicompanionsservices.com in duabai. Hope these tips will help him for have great fun.
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Lots of lube, some patience and stretching before penetration. Just like pussies, no two assholes are the same and some require more 'prep' than others. I have been fortunate, my first guy wasn't all that big and my back door is a bit more flexible than most. If when you start there is any pain (not just a bit of discomfort) stop, add more lube and stretch the opening with fingers until it relaxes.
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My first time with anal was about 8 or more years ago. I've done the prepping with fingers (that can help), and of course lotsa lube, and I've even tried the numbing lubes...but I've found out in the last year or so (this is the best thing that works for me anyway)...to minimize pain or discomfort for the girl, just put a buttplug in your ass for say 10-20 mins beforehand...works like a charm!! Stretches it open and when that plug comes out and he goes in...voila! It's awesome;)
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lilgirl has a very good suggestion there. It helps your body relax and makes it a much more enjoyable experience. Just make sure you get the correct size plug or you wont get the chance of trying a dick. I have found that rubbing the clit and getting her all worked up help a lot too.
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Good suggestions so far for sure - although I've read that the anal numbing stuff can be a bit dangerous because if you completely lose feeling and something does go wrong (however unlikely) you won't know... tips I'd suggest include:
1) Lots and lots and lots of lube
2) Relaxation... maybe a nice warm bath first to ease the body and mind
3) Enema or anal douching - can be as simple as a rectal flush you get from a pharmacy - but I think a clean experience is more enjoyable
4) Patience... start with a finger tip (cleanly trimmed finger nail) and progress slowly (maybe even over a period of time) work up from there... maybe a small toy (make sure it is a plug or has a flared base)
5) Communication with your SO - as you explore together, communicate how it feels... take it slow...
6) Fully lube whatever is being inserted - and fully lube your rosebud - around it and inside (coating a finger with lube is usually best)
7) When it comes time to try anal sex... take it slow... get used to the cockhead pressing against your rosebud... slowly let it poke in... once the head passes it feels like a little pop... no thrusting yet just let your ass get comfortable with it... then slowly get into thrusting...
Ok... damn... it's been 2 plus decades since I enjoyed anal sex lol... and just sharing all this has me wanting it more lol...
Enjoy - the buildup of getting into this will only lead to more enjoyment
1) Lots and lots and lots of lube
2) Relaxation... maybe a nice warm bath first to ease the body and mind
3) Enema or anal douching - can be as simple as a rectal flush you get from a pharmacy - but I think a clean experience is more enjoyable
4) Patience... start with a finger tip (cleanly trimmed finger nail) and progress slowly (maybe even over a period of time) work up from there... maybe a small toy (make sure it is a plug or has a flared base)
5) Communication with your SO - as you explore together, communicate how it feels... take it slow...
6) Fully lube whatever is being inserted - and fully lube your rosebud - around it and inside (coating a finger with lube is usually best)
7) When it comes time to try anal sex... take it slow... get used to the cockhead pressing against your rosebud... slowly let it poke in... once the head passes it feels like a little pop... no thrusting yet just let your ass get comfortable with it... then slowly get into thrusting...
Ok... damn... it's been 2 plus decades since I enjoyed anal sex lol... and just sharing all this has me wanting it more lol...
Enjoy - the buildup of getting into this will only lead to more enjoyment
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As everyone here has said... Lube, lube, more lube and lots of lube.
You can buy lube made for anal sex. Not sure what the difference really is but may be worth the try.
Also, a patient partner. Taking your time, stretching you a bit with his fingers or a toy first so you can get the feeling and sensation. Just try to relax, not tense up as he enters you. Once he is finally inside you the pain and sting will subside.
Know that beyond the first penetration, that sting and burn as he enters you, will be some extreme pleasure that you cannot compare to vaginal sex. Not in my opinion anyway.
Good luck!! I hope you both enjoy it!
You can buy lube made for anal sex. Not sure what the difference really is but may be worth the try.
Also, a patient partner. Taking your time, stretching you a bit with his fingers or a toy first so you can get the feeling and sensation. Just try to relax, not tense up as he enters you. Once he is finally inside you the pain and sting will subside.
Know that beyond the first penetration, that sting and burn as he enters you, will be some extreme pleasure that you cannot compare to vaginal sex. Not in my opinion anyway.
Good luck!! I hope you both enjoy it!
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Wee took our time, about 3 weeks every night during foreplay, I would indulge in some anal play. First it was licking, when she was ready, I put a well lubed finger in. Eventually, I got a couple of butt plugs, a small one at first, with lots of anal lube. Then one that matched my girth. When she got to where she was wearing a plug through a fuck, we made time for her first "time". I suggested she be drunk. She was. It was about a 2 hour session with all the previous butt plays in motion. I began in her cunt. This relaxed her. After a break and another glass of wine, I got behind her with a lot of anal lube both on me and in her. I put it in so slow. Just the head, pull out, back in a little deeper, out. Put it about halfway, let it sit still, allowing her to stretch. Eventually a slow fuck began with her face buried in the pillow, muffling her squeals. I managed to cum in her ass. Afterwards, she was glad we did it, but it was 4 days before she let me back in her ass with just my tongue! After a while, we began doing anal about twice a week.