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ladies, do you think its weird if your partner likes to use sex toys on you?

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ladies, do you think its weird if your partner likes to use sex toys on you?i mean does it make you think he is an impotent? or could you actually like it?
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No, I think it means he wants give me pleasure/get me off.

Every man is different but it's never been because of that.

It's very enjoyable.

Tries to recall.

Fails.

Lmao. I'm pretty sure at some point there were toys involved.
Besides handcuffs.

Rainbow Warrior
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Weird? No. I'd imagine his motives were to pleasure me.
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For me it's all part of the pleasures we share. Male or female. Impotence -far from it. As it makes us cum we certainly like it.
As one of my partners is female it is not unusual for us to both of us to share and enjoy the fun and pleasure of toying each other.
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It would depend on the toy, but generally no not weird.
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It would depend on the toy, but generally no not weird.
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Quote by Roar666
ladies, do you think its weird if your partner likes to use sex toys on you?i mean does it make you think he is an impotent? or could you actually like it?


If he is willing to give me the pleasure I deserve most............................... Why should I be bothered abouy whether it is weird or anything.....................
I deserve the pleasure of love making as much as he deserves....
So its absolutely fine with me.
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Not at all....
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Not weird at all. In fact it shows he cares and wants me taken care of. He's exploring and learning me more by doing this as well. Super sexy.

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Princess D
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nope...love all my toys..the more the merrier
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Quote by Roar666
ladies, do you think its weird if your partner likes to use sex toys on you?i mean does it make you think he is an impotent? or could you actually like it?


Ok ladies, you said it wasn't weird for the partner to use toys on you, now give us your favorite toys for us to use and why? ;)
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Not weird at all, actually it shows me a very refreshing attitude.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Gosh no...I love them and love to experiment.
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What could possibly be weird about that?
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Active Ink Slinger
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Sounds good to me
Lurker
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It is totally exciting for my man to pull out a toy and please me and not expect anything back. When the motive is to please your lover and is not self centered, nothing beats that! I am ready right now for some of that!
Cryptic Vigilante
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I wonder which kind of toys women generally prefer to add when having sex with a man... dildos, vibrators, anal beads, bondage accessories?

From my experience, if a girl doesn't perform anal you're kind of limited in your options: additional dildos and anal beads are pretty much pointless. Vibrators can be fun during oral sex however. Generally speaking though, I usually assume that girls get to use all of their toys plenty of times when they're alone, and I'm much more inclined to offer them what their toys cannot... and that's fucking them wildly with my own dick.

More often than not, girls have to propose it themselves if they feel like adding toys. And from my own experience, it's not something that most of them do all that often.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
I wonder which kind of toys women generally prefer to add when having sex with a man... dildos, vibrators, anal beads, bondage accessories?

From my experience, if a girl doesn't perform anal you're kind of limited in your options: additional dildos and anal beads are pretty much pointless. Vibrators can be fun during oral sex however. Generally speaking though, I usually assume that girls get to use all of their toys plenty of times when they're alone, and I'm much more inclined to offer them what their toys cannot... and that's fucking them wildly with my own dick.

More often than not, girls have to propose it themselves if they feel like adding toys. And from my own experience, it's not something that most of them do all that often.


Apparently you did not understand that this thread is asking the opinion of the gals, not the guys. And what makes you think toys cannot offer things your dick can. At least the toys don't go soft on us after one orgasm. Most women are capable of having multiple orgasms, so even if you do "fuck them wildly". toys are great for a second or third orgasm, or to even keep the first one going for a while. Plus they come in a multitude of shapes and sizes and materials, where with your dick, it's the same old thing time after time.

And before you ask it, yes I have been with men for many years, and I always found toys a lot of fun, with or with the addition of a cock.
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes, added pleasure, trying new things, what's not to like?
Active Ink Slinger
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How can I say no if she want to give me pleasure in a playful manner smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Prolific Writer
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Toys only enhance sex.

What would be wrong with bringing them in.

Let the games begin....

xoox
Active Ink Slinger
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No not at all. It's quite common actually.
Active Ink Slinger
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Weird? Why weird its a pleasure to enjoy surely. I often invite him or her to pick one for them to play with me. They chose - I enjoy.
Lurker
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I've been telling husband I use toys when he's away for a while. He's always raiding my fucking battery stash. Anyway, recently he suggested we play with them together, although we haven't yet, I was very very happy he mentioned it!
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All depends on my mood but I don't use toys of other girls even if she is my gf. Yes the toy has to me mine and I love being played like that. In certain situations, I like to be considered as a toy myself.... so do you need a toy lol :P
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Not at all
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I enjoy it. I once had a man that brought toys in a bag and I was not able to see what he had in the bag for me. Always anticipation as to what he had brought to play with that day.