You have to use lots of lube and go easy! Try something very small at first, but always, always, always, lots of lube. There is no natural lubrication there, so be extra careful. Also it helps to be very horny. So always start off with something small (and always smooth), then work up to something a bit thicker, keep adding lube, then go up a size to something larger, like a nice vibrator or dildo, but not too large. Make sure everything is very clean and very lubricated!
Anal doesn't work for everyone. Here's me using my vibe. It's not as thick as most cocks, and very smooth.
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Cindy gave good advice. I've been playing with my ass a lot lately and I think I did the same thing as you. It doesn't seem to really heal, or takes a long time so be careful. I do love playing with my ass though. There are lots of good items to be put up there but yes, use lots of lube and go slow
i love anal play it takes a bit to get a penis in but worth having someone driving you and cum no hands yes lots of lube and easy start
Lube,lots of Lube,olive oil is good !
As others have said - I would stay away from hard straight objects that can't flex with the body. You can really damage yourself that way.
Get a small anal-vibe, butt-plug or a small soft/silicone dildo to start. I've also heard good things about the 'Aneros' prostate-play toys.
And definitely use lots of lube.
Trust me, doctors and nurses know about most sexual kinks. If they haven't tried it themselves, someone else has ask about it before.
Yes it can hurt very much, I have had it hurt and very uncomfortable with bleeding and time to recover but with plenty of preparation before hand relaxing and with a partner who's size is very compatible with your opening and him using plenty of lube along with gentleness it can be extremely pleasurable for you and him