OMG Really! I suppose you can't imagine why you haven't got A response to this post ? You need to learn to walk before you can run son.Try putting more information about yourself in your profile for starters. Go through the posts in the LGBT section of forum. click on the user names of the CD's you find in the posts. It will bring up their profile, ask them to be your friends & for advice on how to dress. Dress up & take some pic's of yourself. Post them on your profile page. Do these thing & people will take you more seriously. They may even start contacting you. Good Luck & Good Lush.