Do looks really matter in a relationship? Or is it about the inner beauty?
to make a relationship last, inner beauty is more important, in my opinion. Unfortunately, there has to be an attraction that draws me to a person, and many times that is outward good looks.
There has to be some degree of physical attraction, but without inner beauty, she could be Helen of Troy and it wouldn't matter.
Well, the two before me said what I was going to say. It's not what is on the outside that matters to me. It's what is on the inside. I have always been one for those women that show their inner qualities on the outside. That's what always attracted me most to women, and when I found the one I am with now, and she knew what true beauty is (even though she may not realize it) she had me hooked. And we've been together now for two years and she is just as beautiful to me on the outside as much as she is beautiful on the inside.
"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."
--Evanescence
Let's NOT fuck around... Looks Matter...
But Here's The Real Deal...
There are SOME people who knock you out of the park on meeting ONE 'cos of how they look... That CAN be cool...
More OFTEN, (and WORTH More...) are those people who, INTRIGUE and ENTICE, FASCINATE and Captivate, endear and give one reason to EXPLORE further...
Ordinary Comment: "You have great hair..." (I know that...)
EXTRAORDINARY COMMENT: "Do you mind my saying that you have the most beautiful HANDS???"
xx SF
Sharrone O'Reilly, WHERE ARE YOU NOW! (I was playing CRAP piano at the time...) And my hands are STUMPY and HORRIBLE!!!!!!
But THAT isn't what SHE said.
(My current Belle HATES her tight curly hair... WISHES for straight tresses... I ADORE HER HAIR!!!!!!!)
Wait ... You mean there's ANOTHER factor?