Seriously I've met tougher women (and not butches either) than some men.
Especially some of the guys chasing me down to get them off in a chat.
WTF.
I think that's a very sweeping statement and wrong on many levels.
Your post doesn't really give any information on which to base an answer - I can only assume you've been let down or pissed off by someone?
Maybe if you give us a little more to go on, you'll get better answers, or if it's a general rant you want, then perhaps you could vent in The Rage Cage?
Best of luck!
In just four days you could define Lush men? Well...
I'm not sure. You'll have to ask them.
Or is this another one of those, 'Men ain't shit! Who's with me?' threads?
░P░U░S░S░Y░ ░I░N░ ░B░I░O░
'And they "hit like a girl"? that said- that is sad... re-ee-aally? I thought you meant baseball or something, lol, and then realise you are talking about BDSM.
Men are taught that... they are educated and brought up that picking on or hitting a girl is "wrong". It all started when we were little, so it is an ingrained lesson taught of manners and behaviors. (Male and female hormones may not be what they used to be either as things in this world change. I do not know.)
I do not know if you are referring to men 'in general' every day real life, or Lush, or various sites, but for 1.) I think you might want to check to see if that is who YOU are attracting and maybe you need to look at yourself. I tend to attract the dominant types and always have. I am also a very strong female... BUT I AM a submissive and NOT ever wanting my big strong manly man to to harm or mistreat his "little girl" -infact I don't think that kinda behavior makes a man MORE of man, manly, (or LESS whimpy)... I feel the opposite. I'm into BDSM but I am not into that. So~ look at who you are attracting and maybe 'why'.
I never cared for dating shy guys or very feminine acting guys. I always liked men who were able to stand up for themselves and ones who were not afraid acting on things, but at the same time I do not want a 'bully' and there is a huge distance between the two, and in that gap a man can be a human-being as well as man. One extreme or the other I am not into, and that is just me.
I do not think men 'in general' you will find too many that really love and enjoy "hitting" women. Personally, I am darn glad about that. I am also happy there are those men who can stand up and draw their own lines. There is enough abuse in the world and treating people badly. If you want someone who is a wife-beater type, or a BDSM guy who is in actuality INTO it... then try going to the sorts of places where they are and hone in on that one objective and I am sure you will find it!
Keep calling guys things like pussies and pansies and see how that works out, maybe you will weed them out? :/
i'm offended that it's assumed that, because of my gender, i can't throw. i can probably out throw 50% of the guys here, maybe more. also, why do men have to be tougher than girls? i'm not into stereotypes. i know some pretty damn tough girls. i know some pretty damn tough men. i know some very gentle souls of both genders.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Why are men such pussies? Well some would say, "you are what you eat."
You know.
I've always liked fucking girls...!
My Karma just ran over your Dogma