Direct/Indirect Clitoral Stimulation
We all know that the clitoral glans is protected by a hood (except maybe for these guys who are too busy fantasizing about panties).
Often times, women will prefer to stimulate their clitoris by rubbing their hoods (which will itself rub against the clitoris), instead of directly stimulating their clitoris, which might be too sensitive.
My question is, do you prefer direct or indirect clitoral stimulation? Is direct stimulation too sensitive for you?
In my experience, most women prefer indirect clitoral stimulation. This makes me a little sad somehow, as I developed a special technique to pop out the clitoris during oral sex, but only rarely get to use it.
Thanks for sharing.
I'm a bit surprised by the results of the poll so far; most women answered that it depends on their level of arousal.
In my experience, women can appreciate some 'unexpected' direct stimulation on their clitoris, for example while licking their hoods and my tongue accidentally reaches the glans, but popping their clitoris out and offering constant stimulation on it gets too sensitive for a lot of them.
I like direct ~ I also like all of the aforementioned. If it is oral sex~ especially "direct" is my preference - even if I may not always get that. Women's clitoris are all slightly different, just like the basic size and shape of things surrounding (much as there are some differences between men.) Sometimes women are more revealed than others or more completely masked by the hood and unable to have it exposed (this is from reading ONLY, lol, so - disclaimer there). I fall in a very normal range in that standard mid ground area, so it is not a problem of NOT being at all exposed, at least the tip, or TOO sensitive being VERY exposed, HOWEVER the man does have to do it right, yes or there is sensitivity that is too soon or hard/harsh... (I still like it, it is just that I like to "build" too and I am more use to that in my 'own' methods, but I am flexible.) >////< I voted for direct but I almost voted "depends" on level of arousal because much of the time that is the case, yes. Do men just have one speed? Do they just like it hard and intense? I think most everyone enjoys mixing it up sometimes.