change-ups, listed above, are a reason.
another is that many men (not all) think of it as a way to get women started so that you can move on to other things, when it has to be something you work up to. i gather that for a guy, a woman just starting to do whatever with her mouth before he's even hard works really well. it doesn't work quite that way for the reverse. if i''m not yet excited, being licked isn't really that pleasurable.
I understand all of the comments and complaints ladies, but do you ever talk to your partner during sex and tell them what/how/where/ and when you like it? Just a thought!
I agree with what the ladies have posted. Some guys, especially younger men, tend to default to what feels good to them. They haven't yet learned the value of working up to it by kissing her thighs and slowly stimulating her entire sex before he starts to direct his attention to her clit.
Conversely, I've been with less experienced women who don't quite understand just how much speed and strength of grip or whatever I prefer during oral or a hand job. For both sexes, experience is critical to being a good lover.
I also think that same sex relations offer better oral sex. Whether it's man on man or woman on woman, there is the obvious knowledge of what feels good. It's more instinctive in gay or lesbian sex. Another reason same sexes are better sometimes is that, at least in my experience, no one is sucking or licking because they feel they should. They are in it all the way and are likely enjoying it as much as those that receive. That is often true in heterosexual relations, but honestly less often so.
Please read the above! Communication makes for a happy lady. I rest my case.
Women are usually better. My take on it is that because we have the vag/ clit/ flaps, we know how they work better. We understand the slow build, the light touch, the rhythm. We know what we like and can do it in return. Same reason we're probably not as good at BJ's. Bi men friends tell me that guys give better blowies for the same reason.
Women are usually better. My take on it is that because we have the vag/ clit/ flaps, we know how they work better. We understand the slow build, the light touch, the rhythm. We know what we like and can do it in return. Same reason we're probably not as good at BJ's. Bi men friends tell me that guys give better blowies for the same reason.