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Understanding Lesbians??

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so why do Lesbians like dildos and fake penises but don't like the real thing??

explain this please and thank you

you like getting pounded but not by the real thing??

what gives........please be kind....thanks smile
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Being that I am Bi and not a Lesbian I am just making an assumption. But I don't think its the penis that lesbians do not want to be with, It is what the penis is attached too!
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Quote by Nikki703
Being that I am Bi and not a Lesbian I am just making an assumption. But I don't think its the penis that lesbians do not want to be with, It is what the penis is attached too!






I was refereeing to that and other things..........but I'm still wondering somethings

its like why like the fake penises but not the real thing
what if you could just have the dick but not the thing that its attached too
since you still like/love getting pounded....aren't you kindof contradicting yourselves

have you talk to your lesbian or bi friends about this before.....like when you were younger??
Rookie Scribe
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Bc being penetrated feels good no matter what your sexual orientation is
Rookie Scribe
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Bc being penetrated feels good no matter what your sexual orientation is
Her Royal Spriteness
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how about if i answer it like this... if you're a straight guy and you like anal sex with women, shouldn't it do it for you to anally fuck another guy as well? a bottom's a bottom, after all.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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how about if i answer it like this... if you're a straight guy and you like anal sex with women, shouldn't it do it for you to anally fuck another guy as well? a bottom's a bottom, after all.



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how about if i answer it like this... if you're a straight guy and you like anal sex with women, shouldn't it do it for you to anally fuck another guy as well? a bottom's a bottom, after all.


Exactly my thoughts but being a gay guy I love anal sex with a guy but not with a woman and yes I've tried it. The pleasure comes from who you're with.
Big-haired Bitch
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For the millionth time, there's so much more to being a lesbian than sex. Just because you don't have a desire for men doesn't mean you don't have the desire to be penetrated. Hence the dildos and the toys.

There's more to it than the sex. That's not even the most important aspect of lesbianism. Or heterosexualism. Or bisexialism. Or homosexualism.

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For the millionth time, there's so much more to being a lesbian than sex.


Exactly, like flannel and Dr. Martens for starters.
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I'm having a nice time in this thread... kinda.

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Exactly, like flannel and Dr. Martens for starters.


They've evolved past that. Geez, Felix. Where have you been? It's goatees, old band tshirts and birkenstocks now.

Wait. Maybe that's old hippies... I can't keep up with stereotypes anymore.
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Great replies ladies.

Just thinking along the same lines.

As a lesbian and not having the desire for male contact, has the curiosity or desire to feel a real penis penetrate you ever driven you have sex with a man?
Her Royal Spriteness
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They've evolved past that. Geez, Felix. Where have you been? It's goatees, old band tshirts and birkenstocks now.

Wait. Maybe that's old hippies... I can't keep up with stereotypes anymore.


i got a crew cut and bought a pickup truck and some flannel shirts, but i still don't own any Docs. sad

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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i got a crew cut and bought a pickup truck and some flannel shirts, but i still don't own any Docs. sad



I'll buy you some Doc's Spritey, if it would make you feel more like a TRUE and VALIDATED lesbian
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I'll buy you some Doc's Spritey, if it would make you feel more like a TRUE and VALIDATED lesbian




can it be a red pair? i always wanted a red pair. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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can it be a red pair? i always wanted a red pair. smile


I can loan you a pair. I have a pair of purple ones. I have lots of flannel and a truck, too. Does that make me an honorary lesbian?
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I can loan you a pair. I have a pair of purple ones. I have lots of flannel and a truck, too. Does that make me an honorary lesbian?


not sure about the rules, honestly - i'm still not even sure i'm a proper lesbian, but i'm working on it!

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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explain and justify a dildo(or any penis shaped toy) with balls on it.......you like the tool but not what its attached too???

keep the replies kind(don't hate).......thanks lol smile
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Come on, dude. Women, even lesbians, like to be penetrated. Lesbians dig women, not men. A dildo used during masturbation or strapped onto another woman still isn't a man. Like someone said earlier, I enjoy having anal sex with a lady... in your way of thinking, the anus is the "tool" by which I get off. Therefore I'd also enjoy anal sex with a man... but I don't. I'm not into men.

I also enjoy masturbating and I enjoy handjobs from women. Is a hand a hand? Nope, because I have no desire for a man to jerk me off.

Being gay or straight isn't dependent on how you get off, the mechanics of it. It's about what gender a person likes. I like women, women's mouths, hands, asses, and pussies. Men's mouths, hands, and asses need not apply.



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I’m bisexual and I’ve had encounters with other bisexual women as well as Lipstick, Chapstick and Boi Lesbians, and a woman who thought she was a Hasbian. My take on it is that lesbians love women, but that doesn't mean they don't like to be penetrated.

Only in cheap pornos do lesbians suck on dildos and I can’t figure out why they do that.

They just do what feels good.
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Quote by Kimasa
I’m bisexual and I’ve had encounters with other bisexual women as well as Lipstick, Chapstick and Boi Lesbians, and a woman who thought she was a Hasbian. My take on it is that lesbians love women, but that doesn't mean they don't like to be penetrated.

Only in cheap pornos do lesbians suck on dildos and I can’t figure out why they do that.

They just do what feels good.



so you're saying that they're different categories of lesbians.........are you or anyone else too saying that they're lesbians that have never and will never be penetrated by anything....or am I missing what you said.

side question for everyone......would a lesbian have sex with a guy if she and her partner wanted to have a baby...I think I've heard that somewhere..or is that off the table and they'll go for the artificial way instead...
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side question for everyone......would a lesbian have sex with a guy if she and her partner wanted to have a baby...I think I've heard that somewhere..or is that off the table and they'll go for the artificial way instead...


It depends on the women. I'm not saying no and I'm not saying yes. I'm also not a lesbian. But I digress.

Some women do resort to this instead of going through the process of artificial insemination or surrogates. Doesn't mean they necessarily enjoy it. You don't have to be physically or emotionally attracted to someone to have sex with them. There's also the turkey-baster method. Any lesbian wanting to have a baby is after the sperm and not the man the sperm comes from. So this question is a bit absurd, I must say.

Lesbianism really isn't that complicated. Lesbian = Woman who only wants a woman. There are no technicalities.

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Her Royal Spriteness
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just to clarify things, when you decide to become a lesbian (it's a choice, you know, don't let those left wing propagandaists fool you) they send you a rule book so everyone's clear about how to act and what to like and not like - there's even a dress code...

in all seriousness, people are a wide and varied creature, and no two are alike - some lesbian women like penetration, some don't. some might opt to have children and if they do might go for invitro or go the old fashioned way. some like more feminine women some like less feminine girls. it's going to vary from woman to woman. speaking for myself, i enjoy penetration so i use a dildo at times - all the time? no. sometimes oral sex or finger sex is nice or just masturbating together or using a non-dildo like vibrator. the thing is, the equipment doesn't matter - all that matters is the partner - in my case, my wife. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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I believe Rache about summed it all up. It's about your personal preference what you like, of course women like to be penetrated by penises not all women like men. So to counter your pre conceived notion on the proper sexual behavior of women how's about we all just chop it off & use that as means to sexual gratification hmmmm?? Absurd isnt i Just as absurd as your reasoning about this. Women who like women are simply just that some like to be penetrated because it bloody well feels good! End of story.
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Come on, dude. Women, even lesbians, like to be penetrated. Lesbians dig women, not men. A dildo used during masturbation or strapped onto another woman still isn't a man. Like someone said earlier, I enjoy having anal sex with a lady... in your way of thinking, the anus is the "tool" by which I get off. Therefore I'd also enjoy anal sex with a man... but I don't. I'm not into men.

I also enjoy masturbating and I enjoy handjobs from women. Is a hand a hand? Nope, because I have no desire for a man to jerk me off.

Being gay or straight isn't dependent on how you get off, the mechanics of it. It's about what gender a person likes. I like women, women's mouths, hands, asses, and pussies. Men's mouths, hands, and asses need not apply.

You don't know what yo're missing. Lol
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can it be a red pair? i always wanted a red pair. smile



Hello again Spritelette, did you know you can get "hello Kitty" Doc's? I thought they might be an appropriate validation of your lesbianism. You can also get Doc's with flames on them, (not real ones because then they wouldn't be Doc's, would they?)


Personally, I liked these .... i couldn't decide for you so I got you the first two pair, but let me know, I can always go back and swap them for a different pair(s).... i didn't get you the other 2 pair because I'm not made of money you know.... they are just for interests sake.









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At the end of the day it all boils down to.. its none of your business. I was just explaining this to my friend yesterday that couldn't understand why a woman would want a butch female but not a man. I tried to tell her about how everyone is different and blah blah blah ..but it went in one ear and out of the other.

So I just ended it with a big.. why do you care so much about who other people love, fuck, and what means they use to get off?

We all have our personal preferences, and I'm sure you do as well. That's similar to asking a straight male why he won't stick his cock into another man's mouth or ass. At the end of the day an orifice is an orifice..who cares who it belongs to?

*sigh*

Everyone did a great job at answering this question with minor annoyance by the way.
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Quote by Nikki703
Being that I am Bi and not a Lesbian I am just making an assumption. But I don't think its the penis that lesbians do not want to be with, It is what the penis is attached too!



not that there is anything wrong with the majority of men.. but spot on here.. if u have no arousal around the person but a need for the appendage.. seems a shames to cut him off just so u can have fun .. and of course the penis is an amazing organ.. it pees.. it reproduces.. it rises... it falls [although not according to half the men on Lush who swear they r permanently erect.. who am I to doubt them?].. but we have no use for these functions..
all we seek is permanent hardness with variable softness.. oh and some kinky features [why not?].... omg thank goodness for science and the plastics industry..
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I believe Rache about summed it all up. It's about your personal preference what you like, of course women like to be penetrated by penises not all women like men. So to counter your pre conceived notion on the proper sexual behavior of women how's about we all just chop it off & use that as means to sexual gratification hmmmm?? Absurd isnt i Just as absurd as your reasoning about this. Women who like women are simply just that some like to be penetrated because it bloody well feels good! End of story.



it does feel good doesn't it? giggles