I need to know if a girl likes you if you ejaculate when you masturbate thinking about her?
I'm still trying to figure this out but thanks to all of you who responded, esp. tx to Felix the c**t too (just kidding. hope you liked that one, but they were actually very funny, your comments)
P.S. I thought not to say anything about what I think a lady is but I had to include it to give you all a better picture of the situation and therefore get better answers.
Actually, I think this is parapsychology, psi phenomenon, like when you feel someone looking at you and you turn around and look straight in their eyes - everybody knows about THAT, not so? so its a connection of brains, f*king somehow! And women and maybe some men, but I dont feel it, can sense people if they r near - What's that?? It's the same kind of thing, isnt it?
So... I don't think your jizzing to fantasies of her means anything other than you're into her. It's a bit of a stretch to try to correlate it to her liking you. She has no idea you're masturbating, right? So whether you blow your load is kind of irrelevant.
It's also not a valid reason to contact her. She's married. To your friend. Stay away.
Plus you don't really know what's going on in their marriage. Maybe it's just a rough patch. Also if she's not interested in you, there is a very high possibility she will tell her husband at some point, even in a joking way, "hey you know your buddy Reggie - he's dying to hook up with me." When things get shitty in a relationship, trying to make a partner a little jealous that other guys are giving you attention is pretty typical. The fact that he knows you and you're his 'friend' make it even juicier. She might even joke about it with him at some point. And he might not find it all that funny.
In other words - keep the fantasies and jerking off private. If/when they formally break up, then you can pursue her if you don't care much about your friendship with her husband. You're running a high risk trying to hook up with your buddy's wife behind his back. Her 'coming near you' in a public bar and on a dance floor mean nothing, so you would be taking a huge gamble by making any kind of pitch to her.
As a girl, I strongly suggest that you leave her alone for now, if things change, she will contact you some how.
if you want to keep her as your fantasy, do so, it's harmless.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
So you jerk off to a chick...she's unaware...and that means you guys are meant to be together?
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I didn't know what to think about this question. So I read all the responses. I still don't know what to think.
"I think therefore I am" cannot be translated into "I fantasized it therefore it is real".
She absolutely likes you. It is a proven scientific fact that if you orgasm when you think about someone it is because he/she is contacting you telepathically taking total control of your body.
How do you think I know Kate Upton and Bradley Cooper want to have a threesome with me? Although they did say they aren't happy that I drink and have a tattoo!!
God yes, she's probably fingering herself silly at exactly the same time
This is one hot fireplace, if you fantasize over this woman is one thing, but if your really try to start something with her almost certainly if will blow up in your face eventually.
You may have some hot sex with her to get even with her husband for whatever he has done. Either she will go back to him and you will be the cause of their problems or she will move on to someone else and you will still be the cause of the breakup.
Either way it will be your fault and you still will not have this fantasy woman.