How upset would you be if your husband was in love with another? Any suggestions how to snap him out of it? The women is a flirt and sends positive signals, but has rebuffed all approaches so nothing has actually happened. He knows she just likes the attention, but can't stop thinking about her.
If he's got the nerve to tell you he can't stop thinking about her then I would say don't give him the time of day.
I would be handing my husband divorce papers if that we're the case. I am NOT one for cheating or anything of the sort. Your husband needs to make a decision either you or her.
If my husband told me he was in love with another, I would be very upset. Please lets not confuse being in love with have sex with another.
Really there is nothing the spouse can do to change the situation. It seems very much like "I thought he would change after we were married." Only he can deal with this issue and the bigger deal you make out of it the more enticing the other woman will appear.
If I were married to this kind of guy, I'd be pretty upset. Isn't that our initial reaction to cases like this? But I also have to ask myself what's lacking in our relationship.
He has a choice. If he didn't want to cheat in the first place, he can just reject the other woman. And guys will always be guys. It's in their nature to get attracted to other girls. Even if they wanted to be emotionally monogamous, they will always crave for sex with other people.
Hopefully she'd be a curvy cutie and I'd invite her over and we'd both do her but if she was just teasing him with the intent to just torment him I'd be pissed!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!