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Any chicks here dated or ended up with a single dad?

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Sirene_Jaune
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When I broke up with Mr Jaune a few months ago I am now seeing (FWB basis) a single dad who has full custody of his children ages ranging from 6 to 13. I know the kids and have spent a day with them which was fun.

However the single dad and I have spent a few evenings at his place just watching shows, talking and we get on the verge of heavy petting and it seems just as we are about to take the next step one of the kids seems to know there is an extra presence in the house, he wakes up and runs to dad's bedroom door "sobbing" well it's more of a whine and needs his attention.

Dad takes Billy back to Billy's room gives a quick comforting word and comes back to me. We get about five or ten minutes peace then Billy comes back to complain about being 'thirsty", belly being "sore" etc.

I know then it's time to leave his house. Even when Dad escorts me out to front porch and we give a quick convo Billy starts to call out for Dad and in the process wakes up the other children. I don't know I have never been with a guy who has had children on sole custody, I understand the children are number one priority etc. It's just Dad and I are both horny beings but we get interrupted by Billy every time.

Has anyone expreienced this?
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That happens in marriages too. It may be a bit more pronounced with a single parent (either father or mother) but it is not unique to them being single.
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In another life I dated a single father. Its a challenge you face. I think you need to talk to your partner and discuss if this happens regularly when you are not there. If that is the case, which I imagine it is, the child just needs to outgrow the phase. If it only happens when you are there, I think the father needs to handle it. I know its hard coming second in this situation and it can be very frustrating, but that is the challenge of being a parent. And as John said above, it happens in marriages as well. Children can consume you and spouses can be placed second. A balance has to be found to comfort the child as well as fulfill each others needs.

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Sirene_Jaune
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Thanks for the advice guys, very much helped me. As I said I know kids are number one, it's common sense

I am just lucky that I am a paitent person. School goes back next week, and I work half a day while Dad has his own business from home. I can always go over when they are in school. No biggie
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I did. He was a single Dad due to his wife's passing away. He was father to one of my roommates in college. I was very good friends with him and his wife before she died, and she liked me a lot. About a year after she passed, I dropped in to say hi - had a few drinks - and we started "dating". He has actually been a superb "boyfriend" - very generous, a great lover, very in-tune to what makes a girl happy. My friend - his daughter - does NOT know, and I don't think she'd handle it too well.

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No never have dated a single dad.

How about 2 dads? Hehehe

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No, I don't babysit.

Gotta babysit him talking about ex-wife/baby mama and babysit the child. Nonono. Error. Abort mission.