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are you straight, gay, bi-sexual, or bi-curious

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whis catagory do you fall into?

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straight (47 votes) 46%
gay (8 votes) 8%
bi-sexual (47 votes) 46%
bi-curious (34 votes) 33%
Dani
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Why?

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Urbabygirl_1978
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Why?


I'm trying to see if most people are bi or bi curious. I Think the percentage is higher than what people would guess.
Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
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Technically bisexual. Although mainly when drunk.

In terms of relationships and emotional involvements though I'm basically straight.
Guest
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Technically bisexual also, though mostly lesbian lol.
janet_haney
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Technically bisexual also, though mostly lesbian lol.
clum
Clumeleon
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I've answered this question many times on Lush and it always comes with a long, wordy disclaimer/justification. I've responded to the poll but I've decided to give a (slightly) different spiel.

I find sexual orientation is often ill-defined which results in people identifying themselves as "bisexual" or "bi-curious" (whatever that is) all too easily.

I've done sexual stuff with guys. I would do sexual stuff with guys again. I have been/am attracted to some men. I (probably) would not have sex with a man.

I'm heterosexual (much to my parents' shock and disbelief—I'm the one person who had to "come out" as hetero). My best friend (who is gay) describes me as "a hetero with hiccups".

Maybe I just see things differently to most people.


(Also, I hate the word "straight" to mean heterosexual).
Guest
Lurker
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Labels, labels, labels. I'm just me.
BelleduJour
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I'm definitely straight BUT I have had a couple of innocent girl-crushes over the years. Unfortunately, I haven't done much more than kiss another girl (whilst drunk) although if given the opportunity at this point in my life, I'd be open to exploring more with the right partner just so I can say I did IT! I LOVE men WAY too much to ever think of switching teams permanently!!!
clum
Clumeleon
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Of all the people on Lush who state a sexual orientation on their profile,

17701 are "Straight",
5792 are "Bisexual",
4249 are "Bi-curious",
933 are "Gay" or "Lesbian",
104 are "Transexual".

Hope that helps.
brazilandaussie
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male here,im trisexual,i will try anything
Dani
Big-haired Bitch
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Quote by BettyBoop4U


I'm trying to see if most people are bi or bi curious. I Think the percentage is higher than what people would guess.


I understand, although I don't think you'll get much of a representative sample from a site like Lush, where most of us are sexually charged. Most people here will admit to being at the very least bi-curious, but you kind of have to wade through the bullshit, so to speak, because a great majority here are great pretenders. They claim to be bisexual or the like just to seem more appealing. Or maybe there are those that are genuinely bi-curious, who have these desires but have never acted on them. Good luck with your results, and hopefully people will give you honest responses.

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LOVES4PLAY
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Really what diff. does it make? My orientations should only count when I'm looking to spend time with someone in a sexual way.. I DID VOTE , ALSO VOTED HONESTLY.
keoloke
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Choose n Practice Happiness

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keoloke
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012


I understand, although I don't think you'll get much of a representative sample from a site like Lush, where most of us are sexually charged. Most people here will admit to being at the very least bi-curious, but you kind of have to wade through the bullshit, so to speak, because a great majority here are great pretenders. They claim to be bisexual or the like just to seem more appealing. Or maybe there are those that are genuinely bi-curious, who have these desires but have never acted on them. Good luck with your results, and hopefully people will give you honest responses.


Great response. The “declared bi-sex” is however at only 25% so far. Still too early to call it.

Fun and interesting topic
Choose n Practice Happiness

Life is simple; we are what we eat and what we read. Talk is superfluous.
Guest
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In the words of Helen Reddy .... I am Woman.

I am woman watch me grow
See me standing toe to toe
As I spread my lovin' arms across the land
But I'm still an embryo
With a long long way to go
Until I make my brother understand

I'm still a work in progress, I don't need to fit into a category. I'm happy to have an open mind and an open heart.
HotBttmInBriefs
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012


I understand, although I don't think you'll get much of a representative sample from a site like Lush, where most of us are sexually charged. Most people here will admit to being at the very least bi-curious, but you kind of have to wade through the bullshit, so to speak, because a great majority here are great pretenders. They claim to be bisexual or the like just to seem more appealing. Or maybe there are those that are genuinely bi-curious, who have these desires but have never acted on them. Good luck with your results, and hopefully people will give you honest responses.


I think part of that might be true for women but I have met more men on this site who list themselves solely as straight but yet in private will admit to bi feelings but it is something they don't even admit on the forums or on the site in a public area.

And that is their business. And only their business.

Maybe women would like to be a pretender in that way .... I don't know. I know that women who admit to being bi-curious are a big turn on for men so I could see it in that sense. That is going to make them more attractive to men.

But I totally disagree with it as far as men. A man is taking too big of a risk even on a site like Lush to pretend about something like that.

As far as labels, I hate them. But I know it is how the world looks at all of us. They love to define who we are.

I answered bisexual. It's something I came to terms with a long long time ago. sometimes I am an active bisexual and sometimes I'm not. Sometimes I want a nut and some time I don't.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
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Quote by clum
I've answered this question many times on Lush and it always comes with a long, wordy disclaimer/justification. I've responded to the poll but I've decided to give a (slightly) different spiel.

I find sexual orientation is often ill-defined which results in people identifying themselves as "bisexual" or "bi-curious" (whatever that is) all too easily.

I've done sexual stuff with guys. I would do sexual stuff with guys again. I have been/am attracted to some men. I (probably) would not have sex with a man.

I'm heterosexual (much to my parents' shock and disbelief—I'm the one person who had to "come out" as hetero). My best friend (who is gay) describes me as "a hetero with hiccups".

Maybe I just see things differently to most people.


(Also, I hate the word "straight" to mean heterosexual).


Brilliant.

EDWolfe
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The way I see it, I don't feel like I can call myself bisexual until I actually have a sexual encounter that goes beyond masturbation with both sexes. I have gone all the way with a woman and enjoyed it; however I have only masturbated with a guy and had cyber with a guy, so that's why I listed myself as bicurious.
clum
Clumeleon
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Quote by Magical_felix
Brilliant.


I don't understand the Andy Kaufman reference/inference. Please enlighten me.
Nikki703
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I am technically Bisexual, although mainly I am Bisexual, HAHA!!

I hate labels too. Cant I just say I am SEXUAL?
Ruthie
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I suppose everyone who has ever thought about sex with a member of the same sex is bi-curious. I'd say that the percentage of people who have thought about it is probably higher than the poll numbers indicate. I'm straight, but I have bi-curious fantasies.
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Green_Man
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I am straight. But I am so not afraid of having all types around me and as friends.
Guest
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Hey I'm straight but let's face it I've had some bisexual/gay encounters (with my best friend) in my life which I liked. So using Clum's expression; I'm hetreo with a few past hiccups.
Nikki703
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I suppose everyone who has ever thought about sex with a member of the same sex is bi-curious. I'd say that the percentage of people who have thought about it is probably higher than the poll numbers indicate. I'm straight, but I have bi-curious fantasies.


I agree. A lot of people think that if they have ever thought, dreamed or fantasized about being with the same sex then they may be gay/lesbian. That is nonsense. And given that many of us do not recall our dreams, we really dont know if we have ever dreamed about being with the same sex.
Guest
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Bi-curious. Looking for others to discuss my feeling with.....interested?
Guest
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Hetrosexual..and not curious
kylie_kained
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Bi-sexual although I prefer to be called trysexual ( Don't knock it till you try it! )