I was always curious both before and after my first hetero experience. After my first gay and then bisexual encounters I never really had any doubts about what I wanted. Although for almost 6 years I worked to not act on anything but hetero experiences. Not because I wanted to but I was in a committed relationship and she deserved my fidelity. But the urges were always there.
Yes constantly I live between 2 personas
I experimented early in life with other boys and later was seduced by an older man (my first real sex with another male.) I didn't know about bisexuality but I knew I wasn't gay and I wasn't truly straight. Much later in life the terms 'bisexual' and 'androgynous' made everything I'd been confused about come into focus.
I haven't dispelled my doubts yet. I've always been straight in my actual activities and find women very attractive (Hell, I married one and I've had more than few crushes even now in my middle age years). Yet, there's this niggling attraction to the fantasy of having a guy that's become stronger over time. I can't really say that I've been attracted to or even crushed on any specific guys but the general idea of sex with a man enthralls me and I certainly get off to gay porn and images. So, I'm not totally sure that "bisexual" is the right label yet but I'm increasingly thinking it is.
Sex researchers (forget if it was Kinsey or M&J) seem to think there's a continuum running from gay to straight rather than discreet points so I'm likely somewhere on that continuum leaning towards the straight end but a long way from being at that end of the line. Speaking hypothetically (since I don't have time to do real research on this) if we had a scale from -5 to +5 where -5 means one is attracted to sex with opposite sex only, 0 means one is equally attracted to both sexes, and +5 means one is attracted to same sex only, I'd probably fall around a -1 or -2 rather than squarely on a 0. Mostly attracted to sex with women but open to sex with men as well. Then again, if I were to let go and actually have a sexual relationship with my own sex, who knows? Maybe I'd find I'm more or less into it than I currently think.
NO. I've known since I was very young that I was Bi. But I also knew that I wasnt going to be happy limiting myself to only being with one sex. I tried to when I was married and although I did not have sex with women (or anyone other than my husband) during that time, women were in my fantasies.
I'm bisexual, but sex with men is only sex. I have no opposition to the gay lifestyle.
I am very bi, I can lick a pussy for hours and can suck a cock better than Hoover
Not exactly doubts, no. I've always found both men and women attractive, but relationshipwise I was only interested in men up until my first and only girlfriend. That relationship has since then ended, but it had nothing to do with the fact that she's a female and just didn't do it for me. Do I still find women attractive? Absolutely. I'm attracted to both sexes equally, and I don't prefer one over the other. It all depends on who I click with, so I'm indifferent to sex. Right now I'm with an amazing guy...and we mesh quite well together. It's all about timing and what you like. I think with being bisexual, you kind of have to reach that point of figuring out what you do and don't like WITHOUT bringing their sex into consideration, otherwise you'll always feel just a bit confused. At least that's how it's been in my limited experience.
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My doubts have aways been in others and not myself, especially after college and witnessing 'street sap'. Sap drips when seeking the syrup container. The forest is full of 'street' sap trees that run deep in sap and low in esteem.
I use to have doubts as well as, allot of guilt but now I have accepted it and live with it without any guilt.
Good to know I'm not the only one that feels this way.
I'm constantly doubting myself on whether I'm bisexual and for periods of time, I will only lust after women and enjoy their company more then men and sometimes, I'll enjoy a man's comapny to a woman's. I know for sure that I can't date a man (believe me, I've tried and it didn't work out) because I always have an emotional and romantic attraction to women. So, yeah.
No I've never had any doubts. I've always, or at least for as long as I can remember, found men and women sexually attractive
At one time or another I always get questioned about my lifestyle and whether I'm happy with it or not. For the most part I'm happy and I don't question it since I know how excited it makes me to be different and try new things every time.
Sure I doubt it but it feels good. So why not do something that feels good
Sure there were times I wasn't sure but the reason I questioned myself was because people would tell me that being bi was not a real thing! Iwas either gay or I wasn't.
I've had serious relationships with men and women and found both to be very fulfilling. I think my biggest dilema is that I enjoy being with both too much to give up either. This obviously has led to some real heartbreak. Probably the main reason why I suck at relationships. Anyone else have this kind of problem?
I am a male that prefers women but do like men as well. There are days that I prefer women and thn days that I want a man
I realized I was bisexual before I had sex with a girl. I realized it when I was checking out girls as much as I was guys haha. For a really long time, I had my doubts that I had a lesbian side, because I had never been with a girl (and also because of religious reasons), but by the time I was sixteen, I knew I was. Still, when I see myself in the future married, it's usually with a man. I guess you could say I favor men, but I still adore the ladies. (:
The moment I realized I was bisexual, I was younger and i was hanging out with my childhood friend and I started sucking his cock, after my mouth got tired, he penetrated me...deep, and thats what freaked me out cuz i REALLY loved the feeling of his cock going in and out of me. That was the first time I ever got a mouthful of cum, which I enjoyed. One week after that, I wanted him again so he came gave it to me again so i was no longer "curious"..but i was ok to be officially a cock loving bisexual. I've had 8 more guys after him anyways.
have a nice day everyone :D
