Have you ever faked a orgasms and why.
To make the man / woman feel better?
Sex is not good?
Trying to hard to cum?
The answer is no I've never faked one.
I think you could only successfully fake one to someone very inexperienced who's taken in by falsified vocal sounds. Like on porn movies.
It would be impossible to fake what happens to my body and pussy during orgasm.
No I haven't. Why? Because I don't understand why anyone would do that. If you're faking an orgasm to 'get it over with', then why start it at all?
What you have both said is what i have been thinking.
I dont understand why woman fake it.
If the other person is not doing it right, get them to change it or ask them to do some thing different.
I sometimes have a difficult time cumming. I'll be right on the verge of something monstrous, and it will suddenly leave me. I've had this issue since I first became sexually active. So, once in a while I fake it, so it doesn't crush my partner that I couldn't. Because in my case, it's never his fault, it's something that's wrong with me.
Yes, so that he'd get off me and leave me alone. Thankfully, this isn't an issue anymore.
Edited: It would start because it was worse to say no and deal with the fall out.
Not that I can remember, I really see no reason to besides I cum very easily, well I do now. Besides, if you fake orgasms, the guy is going to think he is doing everything right and never improve. Its better to tell him what he is doing wrong and show him what you like if you really like him. If it is just a one nighter, than why bother stroking his ego, LOL!!
I don't like the idea of it either... but I guess some gals do it. I have to also say that sometimes a woman does not achieve orgasm because of other reasons than 'the guy isn't doing something right'. Stress, not feeling well, other things on her mind, you name it. And a woman can still enjoy sex without having that final release (of course I bet most would agree it is better if they can lol). I don't think a woman should ever fake it though. Just be honest with your lover, you can still be having a great time, and enjoying it without someone having to be the one who is not doing something right.... things just don't always work out to their fullest all the time. Even when the other person did exactly the same thing that worked the last time. ;)
Yeah, unfortunately, once. Only because it was with a guy who I didn't want to be with.
Yep. Basically bc it's just bad and I want it to end.
Haven't in a while, now I just say cum and ill finish the job.
I do not remember every faking an orgasm. But there have been lots of times I did not have an orgasm. Which means if this is going to work, maybe we need to communicate better and practice on our technique.
Sadly some time you two are just not a very good match. Darn
faking an orgasm is a copping mechanism for some woman.
situations not to be judged.
and yes a woman can fake it..if she isn't into the mood, using her pelvic floor muscles, she can work it well..
Not something one does regularly but is a way to escape an unpleasant situation. I have a couple of friends in abusive relationships who have not made their way out. One of them explained to me once how she copes when her hubby is drunk and that is she lyres there doing her pelvic floor muscle exercises. gets him fastly worked up and blows his load before he turns physically abusive towards her. i asked her why she stays with him, she is still in the but i love him category..
i dont like to fake orgasms but i have done a couple of times during 1 night stands where i just want him to finish
Honestly, in my opinion, I don't think there's a high chance of faking an orgasm when your in person. So I never did..
You know, if you message me, you can see what an interesting person I can be.
Just saying.
Unfortunately i have... This girl i was with was just not turning me on, and i could not for the life of me cum. Like so many others caught in that situation, it was a one night stand, and the drugs/ booze probably stopped me from being able to. I would say it's totally not right if you're in a long term relationship with someone though. Success in a relationship is based off honesty, and faking an orgasm is certainly not honest.
I have faked it with a lot of men it helps them get off and that is what they pay me for so I do what they need. I only faked one time with a woman, she was dreadful as a lover I think it was her first time with a woman not sure. I got her off or think I did and then she tried on me after 30 minutes of jabbing fingers and sounds of disgust coming from her as she attempted to eat me out I faked it to get done with it. She just didn't know what she was doing but it was a one night stand so not to concerned on it.
Millie 90 lbs of Dynamite
Because the guy was lousy in bed and I wanted it over with and I didn't want to harm his sensitive ego
Have to admit I have. Can't exactly say why it was necessary....
Why would I do that? It makes him think he did something amazing, and then he'll do it again! I'd rather gently guide him away from what isn't working for me, and to do something that IS amazing and DOES make me orgasm!
i do if sex with the guy is really boring and i just want it to be over with. if sex is just taking awhile and for some reason i cant really get off, ill just help out
well i faked all the orgasms when i tried to be straight and i just wanted the sex over with... However, since ive come to the realization im a lesbian i rarely fake with girls... but when i do it's cuz they dont turn me on enough and i just want to make em feel good.
not needed to, i just say nah
I have faked before...
Just because I was really tired and needed to get some sleep before school the next day ;)
Yes I have, sometimes you have to if the sex is boring.
Nope. I've never faked it.
I understand THAT too. We've all had/endured bad sex. Get the fuck outta here... you lame bastard/bitch - why did we have sex, again?
