Okay guys and gals, this question was asked to me recently, I'd love your response.
"Why is it that if a 45 year old woman fucks a 20 year old man, she's a "Cougar," but if a 45 year old man fucks a 20 year old woman, he's a "Pervert." LOL
I am surprised at your question,
Over the years it has been much more acceptable for a mature man to have a young sex partner and even to marry her.
But it has only been recent years that an older woman could acceptably be with a younger man and thank goodness for that.
I think BOTH are still not as accepted as some would like to think it is. In tv shows, and movies maybe, but in the general public.... I don't think so. You may not get the open comments, but rest assured, you ARE getting talked about in a negative way behind your back.
From my experience, the 20 year old female being fucked by the 45 year old guy is the one people question. She's assumed to have 'daddy issues', be a gold digger, looking for a sugar daddy.