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what do you like...to have your breast fondled first, to have your ear nibbled on or right between your legs, how should you be make love too ?
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I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile
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I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile


Bravo for a man that understands this!!! I agree with him 100%. Women (and some men) are very very mentally driven. It all starts in the brain. The anticipation building throughout the day is a great start.
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I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile


I totally agree. But a really talented tongue and a willingness to use it never hurts either!! LOL
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LOL yeah, there are physical things that can get a woman ready for 'penetration', but frankly I consider them all part of SEX or making love. I don't consider them a separate act. But again, that is just me. smile
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I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile

I've always said that foreplay starts from the moment your wake in the morning and lasts all day until you're finally together again - and this goes for BOTH men and women btw! It's a shame that most men don't get it. If they did, I'm pretty certain there would be a lot fewer men complaining they never get any sex!

As for JohnC....yes...he definitely gets it
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I've always said that foreplay starts from the moment your wake in the morning and lasts all day until you're finally together again - and this goes for BOTH men and women btw! It's a shame that most men don't get it. If they did, I'm pretty certain there would be a lot fewer men complaining they never get any sex!

As for JohnC....yes...he definitely gets it

Thank you baby. smile
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Quote by JohnC
I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile


Could not have said it any better! =d>
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yes an A+ for John C he does get I'm glad to see ; - )