If I just want to talk, I send a private message. If I want to have them as a friend, I send a friend request... WITH a message most of the time.
Interesting profile. Following someone called love_always who hasn't been on the site in over three years, and a favourite story published over a year ago by someone called semprecorneo (translates as "always horny").
Suspicious? Me? Never
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Why not read some stories instead
NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber If I have never had any interaction with that person I will usually send a message, and keep messaging with them back and forth since it's something I do enjoy.
If we have spoken in chatrooms and on countless occasions in forums I will usually send them a friend request with a message attached.