I honestly wish I could understand the female brain.
Today my wife went for a sleep, woke up 2 hours later and the world fell down on me for every reason under the sun... From nothing wrong to nothing right ... Why?
Claimed I was selfish and only thought of myself during her sleep... I was watching tv yes but playing with the kids to keep them quiet, fed them and made sure there were no accidents. Somehow it all went wrong. Guess my main point is guys say their say as and when something happens, at least I do. Most girls I know allow it to fester and the smallest thing then turns into a volcano... Pisses me off.
Ok, maybe I just need to let some steam off.. Of course the resulting discussion opened other questions to... Lol. Another post at another time maybe
might help just to ask her what's up?
In my experience , freaking out over something trivial, is actually a built up annoyance of something else.
Thanks.. I am calmer now even if still at a loss as to what happened. What I do know is no getting lucky tonight. Lol
My wife woke up mad with me because of a dream she was having.
because we r aloud to be lol
because we know that, all we have to do is give good head and you won't give a fuck how difficult we are.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
WOW, we are dealing with dumb and dumber!
If you would truly care more for her then you do yourself then that would not happen as often. I and many of the women I know truly give from their hearts and all they want is a man that will do the same. Make an effort to do something for her that you know SHE would like and not what you would like. Men and women both do this. We give to others what we want from them....learn from that and learn what she wants from what she does for you. That will not always be easy because usually what she needs from you is the last thing you want to give....but I guarrentee that it will pay off in the end with a happier and more fulfilling marriage.
Many women wake up pissed off after a nap. They dreamed of escaping and then woke up to the reality of dealing with a husband and kids. Did she apologize for acting that way? If not then you have a big problem.
No apology yet... I forgive quickly though.
No was not done because I expected anything else. She often sleeps and I look after them.
I think a lot of stress in both our lives not helping...
Thanks for the replies everyone. I do need to appreciate her more...
Because we control all the pussy there is so we can be as difficult as we please!!!
Haha EXACTLY! Pussy monopoly = we set the rules baby! You want the pussy then better be a good boy.
Perhaps when you watched and fed them, you inadvertently made a bigger mess? I know my ex would say he was watching the kids but would wake up to a trashed house. You say you played with them, did you pick up behind them? You made dinner, did you leave a mess in the kitchen? All of those would leave me cranky. Perhaps she is tired of her situation? That makes a lot of women cranky too. I'm sure there are other pieces to your puzzle!
@naughty nurse, there always would be another side but no... we were not even at our own house. We did not move out the lounge other than to get drink or whatever. Less mess when she woke up because I ask my kids to tidy up before playing with something new etc. Whatever it was it must have been one of those moments. All is normal now.
We live in Africa because we choose to, that means perks like having 2 maids to assist with kids, clean the house and the dishes etc but it comes with other stress as well and something must have rubbed her the wrong way.
@nikki703, you might have the pussy. Question is do you know how to use it? LOL
Thanks ladies...
me i think sometimes we are just in bad moods..and instead of saying DANGER ahead...we say nothing (dont u hate that....whatever too..drives the nails on the chalkboard for me!)
hmmm two maids a nice house and a fellow who amuses the kids at night and WHO doesnt make a mess
this has got to be a dream....
i would take away 1 maid for a day to teach her humility...lmao
actually no..as i dont believe that anyone's life is this perfect
so dig a bit deeper...we all are annoying at times
but havent u ever woken up in just a bad mood for no reason??
is she spoiled possibily....but alas the one who spoils is...the culprit...
me i am such a bitch after that i would make a HUGE mess in the lounge and let the maids go for a week if my hubby treated me like shit
but alas that is why i am a failure...in my life
@blazestcyr, Africa is only worth living in if you make it work for you!
Bet you not the failure you claim to be.
Yes bad moods happen... Its over , done and dusted but I still wish I understood the female species.
Cheers
Hot dog... Thanks. Lesson read and appreciated. Now what's the school address again? Lol
Enjoy and thanks for comments.
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and I'd certainly give a fuck! 
Of all our inventions for mass communication, 
