Though i have been guesting for a long time, i finally joined Lush this weekend. I have a loving and completely open and honest relationship with my wife. Lush is my one and only secret and i can't help feeling a little guilty.
Are there many others out there who are married and are secret Lush members. Did you feel guilty in any way when you joined?
Or do i just need to man up a bit!!
I dont have an answer but id just like to say it makes a difference to see a guy who is actually committed and faithful for once!
u get HUGE props for your honesty..as long as u dont cheat on here...i am inclined to say ok....i mean most guys dont fess up each time they masturbate do they?
I don't feel guilty, but I don't do anything worth feeling guilty over. A little flirting is acceptable to and for both of us and that's the worst I've ever done. I don't think I've crossed the line into emotional cheating.
Oldfaithful - fess up she will find out. My wife knows I am on here and so is she. I write and chat and have made some what I would call Special Friends. She on the other hand is on my wall and knows exactly what I am doing and her reason for being here is a little different to mine. She loves mind games and there are enough people on here to keep her entertained. She has never laughed so much in years. Our sex life has returned to that of our pre-marriage days.
So at the end of the day fess up and you both might get something out of it. Only draw back we spend to much time on here.
You say you have a completely open and honest and loving relationship with your wife. I really dont see anything wrong with having a few secrets, especially if you are just here for the stories, forums and not to find a cyber GF. Not being sure what you mean by "completely open", I was thinking maybe your wife may like to join you here. That could make your Lush experience even better. How does she feel about sites like Lush? And by completely open, do you mean "open" as in no secrets or "OPEN" as in sexually?
First off - the labrador in your profile pic is absolutely adorable!! Like you I'm lucky enough to have found an amazing real-life partner. We have a fun and loving relationship filled with romance and great sex. Unlike you, Lush isn't a secret although I have felt guilty. There are lines of acceptability in any relationship and you need to be mindful of them and respectful of both yourself and your wife. Forget the 'manning-up' crap. My advice: if it feels wrong, stop.
You know you wife and I do not, But just how adventurous sexually is she? I do not mean do you swing or both have other partners as many Lushies do.
But does she like knew games and fun.
If you feel bored and unexcited in your bedroom, she maybe too
If I found my man was playing on Lush and I was missing on the fun. Well you guessed right I would be upset.
You know it is not just guys that get horny, we girls do also.
Someone wiser than I once said that 'a secret will remain secret until it's told to one other person'.
Someone else said 'you can tell another person your secret, but for it to remain a secret you must immediately kill the person you told'.
So much for secrets!
I'm guilt-free, and secret-free.
