Thank you. Yes, I will have to talk with her about it. All I know is I would follow my mistress anywhere and take a hail of gunfire for her.
1. I like pets that have a mind and opinions of their own but are respectful. I don't do the allowed or not allowed thing. Keep in touch, be straight with me, do what you say you're going to or are directly told to do and let me do the driving and we're good.
2. Not only is it totally appropriate but always happens with the deepest connections. It's different with each one just as there are many different types of love.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! The answer to both questions is yes.
Yes. I have had several people tell me this. When I do talk with my Mistress/Owner I will ask. As far as answers or suggestions pertaing to the second part of my question I can only tell you how I feel about it. As her pup I am VERY protective of her and love her unconditionally. I mean one time she popped me with a riding crop for a minor infraction. I still happily licked her face.
I would like to point out it IS NOT abuse if it is between two concenting adults. A lot of what my Mistress does is through images.
While she might psyhically touch and yes occasionally pops me with the leash or a riding crop it is not as bad as it sometimes sounds.
My mistress and I have set boundries and limits. We have only crossed them once.
Well, it is not as bad as it seems. Yes I do like the occasional pain inflicted but she can also be gentle and loving.
Taken out of context it does sound bad. Bieng put in check is just one of the elements of the lifestyle. How bieng popped with a riding crop is abuse, I'll never know. Remember I said she can get into my mind so a severe beating is what I will feel even if it is light touch.
Well like I said there is a lot of phycological stuff so it might actually be calm but it feels to me, the pup/sub, worse.
In other words it feels like she is beating the shit out of me even if she is simply touching areas of my body and describing what she is doing.
I, personally, think you're full of it.
Obviously being shamed out of the forums isn't possible because you'll just make a new account and start posting over and over again.
Troll... plain and simple. You're giving BDSM a bad name.
AND... IF I give you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually being truthful in here...
I'd like for you to go out, find a skeezy looking dive bar. Find the biggest, baddest thug in the place, with a girlfriend and ask her if she'd like to blow you.
When the big bastard "beats the shit out of you" you'll know the difference between that and what your "Mistress" does to you.
You can think what you want. I don't really care. Frankly I think you are just a cyberbully so whatever. Nope, I am not a troll so there.
Each puppy/sub and Mistress/Owner is different with different ways of dealing with situations. While I support the first ammendment I do not
support bullies. Nobody gives the lifestyle a bad name. Except for those who do not understand it or want to expose it to the outside world. Just b/c someone is so in tune/connected with their owner doesn't mean it doesn/t wont happen. Also go back and reread where I said she popped me with a riding crop for a minor infraction. Perhaps describing that as beating the shit out of me was a poor choice of words. So no, I didn't make up anything.
Me too. Thank u for responding ShyLass.
Don't worry about it Beck some people just have no idea how intense this type of relationship can be. Let your freak flag fly baby!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! That was not my goal at all. Just me not thinking. I do apologize if I offended anyone. Was not my intent. From now on I will be aware of how I present my relationship. The fact is I got carried away and sometimes do not think how something sounds. I do love my Mistress and I know she cares for me. But we have gotten off track. The original question was about reading 50 Shades of Grey and if it is accepted/normal for a sub/pup to love his Mistress/Owner.