I've been raised around marines and they are pretty badass, so whats with all the guys wearing girls underwear and wanting their ass played with?
Everyone has there thing that turns them on. But being a man isn't determined by whether he likes is ass played with or not. How he treats his woman otherwise and takes care of his family are better indicators of ones manliness....at least in my book.
Yup! No Such Thing As A Gay Marine.........
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xx Steph
(There ARE gay marines. They fight, bleed and occasionally die EXACTLY as do their straight brothers. And I very much doubt a lot of them wear panties. )
What kind of stereotype men are you considering? Cave men, thugs, gentlemen, douchebags, effeminate, confused, downtrodden, assholes? All the kinds of "men" are still out there in circulation. What perhaps you mean are decisive and active men and, yes, there seems to a a high degree of "whatever, dude" slackers with little ambition, drive, opinion, or thoughtfulness. If guys answer almost every question or responsibility with a shrug and "I dunno" or "I guess" -- then, I agree, they are not men being men.
What kind of panties? Thong, lacey, french cut, bikini, or granny panties? Or maybe boy shorts.
I think the specific panty makes a big difference. I believe that lacey thongs would be very un-Marine. Maybe okay for the Air Force though, or the Coast Guard.
Can you imagine being a prisoner-of-war and having to be interrogated by soldiers in panties? That would be extra intimidating don't you think. Even worse waterboarded by Marines in thongs.
VERY well said Clum and Sprite.
Nothing more to add!!!
What men wear or don't wear has little to do with their "manliness". That said, it's not a quality just limited to men. It's not bravery in the face of an enemy necessarily, but I admire the quiet often unspoken bravery of facing every day with determination and being "bigger than life" instead of the other way around. We place such emphasis on being a badass but the badassness is usually shallow and unrealistic. I mean really...Chuck Norris and Stallone and Danial Craig are badasses? Bitch, please. Badass is the poor old bastard who every day for the rest of his life deals with a colostomy bag without complaint. Badass is the single mother who works, goes to school, and takes care of her child(ren) every damn day and night. Badass is not based on how many video zombies you blow away or how many cars you steal. Badass is dealing with all of life's challenges and not being a bitter asshole and miserable about it.
Men being men and women being women with quiet dignity and good humor, facing the responsibilities without whining, being independent and classy. That's what I'm talking about. I'd love to see more of it.
If you think that macho jar head shit is what makes a real man I feel sorry for you hon. Some of the sexiest men I know are bi sexual or gay. Some men I know who like to have their asses fucked the most are straight! Some gay and bi men wanna wear my panties, some straight men wanna see me in them or cum in them either way you go all men love panties! Take each person individually on their own merits and forget the stereotypes!!!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! What makes you think marines don't like their ass played with or maybe they are wearing lacy underwear under their uniforms?
Honestly i think you should just laugh that one off and move on the to next guy.
I respect the guy though for not holding back with what he wanted.
Unless that's happened to you on several occasions with different men, then you might want to think about relocating.
Isn't the definition of what makes a man a man quite individual? If you haven't noticed, we live in a different society than we did 50 years ago. Added to the feminism and women getting out of the kitchen and having careers other than nurse or secretary then you suddenly have a man that needs to do other things, like cooking and taking care of the kids. If you want a relationship like the ones they had in the 50's then go for it. Probably plenty of wifebeaters out there that would love a woman that stays at home.
And the ass playing; I'd guess that's just another step in the sexual liberation that has followed the whole that you're a kinky pervert if you do anything other than missionary and a realisation that yes, there is such a thing as a female orgasm.
Actually I guess I am going to be the one to go against politically correctness.
There seems to be an emasculation going on especially on television.
When I was little, I snuck down to watch television after mom and dad went to sleep and what was on was black and white shows about the man being in charge of the house, providing for the family, smart to solve difficult situations, etc etc.
Today we seem to be doing all we can to emasculate men. Probably the only one show that has a brilliant man portrays him as a weak addict and subservient to a woman (House) or at least it was, someone said this new season may be different. The other shows portray a man as a bumbling fool.
While I think the OP is a bit off in what she thinks "makes a man", I do believe that there does seem to be a definite downward trend to what is seen as is manly.
I happen to like a door opened for me, I like my hand held, I like the other things that seem perhaps what a lot of women determine is piggish tho I think is not only romantic but chivalrous.
I don't think a man needs to "embrace some feminine side" to be a man... I think he can be all man to be a man. What I do think determines whether a man is a man, is if he has the ability to determine what his particular lady needs in a man.
Should it be a metrosexual, crying, hand wringer or whether she wants a man to be in charge and hold the door, lead her into a room, not afraid to belch, orders a beer instead of a half caf extra frothy cinnamon coated whip cream latte, and he gives the woman what she wants and needs, I think that is a man who is "the man".
Anyways, however it's defined, I think the man strong enough to be the man his woman needs, is the most manly man there is.
Man = faster than a speeding bullet.. more powerful than a locomotive.. able to leap tall buildings in a single bound.. look.. up in the sky.. it's a bird.. it's a plane. no.. it's.. some guy wearing tights and a fucking cape.. it used to be that our gender was determined by our body parts.. being a man doesn't mean I have to be able to take a punch.. order a beer instead of a Cosmo.. belch the alphabet.. or live up to anyone else's standards but my own.. I get a mani/pedi every six weeks.. I have my hair done at a parlor rather than a barbershop.. I get a hot oil massage once a month.. I love the color pink.. I write poetry.. and I love the scent and taste and feel of a woman.. oh hell.. I think I'm a lesbian...
It's funny because some of the ladies have rightly pointed out about men being more feminine nowadays where I see women acting more like ladettes in this day and age, drinking pints, getting tattoos, having a profession ect.
It seems both the sexes seem to merging into one!
I'm a disabled veteran of the US Navy. I seen a lot of shit over the 12 yrs that served. Including guys in the Navy and Marines wearing women's clothing. The ones that I meet were not gay at least that is what they told me! As for the why, they honestly said it felt better then men underwear and it kept there junk in place. Even that was more then I wanted to know, but each to there own. The question could be reversed: Why do women like to wear men boxers?
Real men aren't AFRAID to wear women's pantyhose. Fear is for small children.