So here is the thing, im a big guy....im 6 ft4 280 lbs but i have 20 inch biceps, a 21 inch neck, a 54 inch chest(pecs not man tits), can bench 450lbs and i played College football....So i am a big dude....like i dont have a belly, im not squishy or anything...im just...well proportionately big lol....
So my point here is that all my life i have been under the impression that some girls were big guy girls because they found a big strong guy comforting and safe, as well as sexy i guess...and that some girls just weren't into big guys....but i mean i guess i just want to get the ladies perspectives....im not talking about big fat guys here...im talking athletic large men....think body builders not on steroids.....
So what do you think? are there girls who are just into big guys and girls that aren't? or do you think there is more too it...
Your question is basically: 'Do different girls have different tastes in guys?' ....with a bunch of your own measurements thrown in.
Of course we do, I go for tall (6ft 2+), where I am tall myself, and an athletic build. At the end of the day, most people (guys and girls) will make exceptions for the right person, but everyone has their ideal.
I think each woman is different and is attracted to different men. Myself I like guys who are a little heavier or big muscle men. I'm a country girl and I've been told I don't know my own strength. I need a man that can handle me. For me, it's not about feeling safe I can take care of myself. If I need to feel safe that is what my smith is for. Never had the pleasure of having a man to protect me. I guess some people judge a book by its cover. What I mean is they assume things...for me I don't care if your big , muscle or whatever ...it's what is in your mind and heart that means the most.
My preference/tendency has always been towards athletic/fit guys with lean/defined muscle (not the overly bulky/bodybuilder types).
The really huge/hulk type barrel-chested 'heavyweight' guys... uhmm... not so much. Nothing wrong with them, it's just not my usual 'type'.
i prefer guys with bigger builds...definitely taller than me and i like a fit/athletic body. overall it is because i like the feeling of a man who is physically strong and can protect me. plus i love feeling the weight of his body when he's on top ;)
I'm a tall athletic girl, no way and I mean no way would I go out with a guy shorter than me. I've always been attracted to big men, though I'm not into the Offensive Linemen type, I'm very much into the Tight End type.. Tall 6'2" or taller, solid athletic builds, that's my thing. Fiance about 6'3" 215 or so...fit guys turn my head.
I have lifted weights since my early teens. I still lift but not for bulk anymore, just to be very cut and ripped. I spend a lot of time running and bicycling and I do a painful huge amount of sit-ups and stomach crunches.
Big, thick, muscular hunks short or tall all I can say to that is HELL YES!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! I guess its always just seemed like some women have a preference for larger built guys but they still find cut ripped ab guys attractive....whereas some women ladies just prefer smaller cut ab guys and wouldn't pay a second look to a big guy. lol but i guess what someone said earlier makes sense...its just personal preference...but i still say to those women who haven;t had a big man show them a good time...DO IT...i would like to see a 170lb guy pick up a 120-130 lb girl and have his way with her how he likes without the support of a wall or door for more than 2 minutes haha
But i do understand that the cut guys are definitely more "pretty" haha and one thing that i have noticed is that "girls" are more prone to be attracted to smaller guys...whereas "women" are more attracted to larger stocky, broad shouldered guys...maybe thats why cougars are the only ones hitting on me! lol =P
To each their own I always say. I always laugh to my self when I hear peoples opinions about bodybuilders. It always seems people have these funny ideas about what my personality must be like, they are often wrong. I am not self centered at all. As a matter of fact, I think I am the opposite of what the negative steriotype might be. All I am saying is that people should have more of an open mind about people. You will be pleasantly surprised. Now on your knee's bitch, just kidding.
lol im not trying to "tip the scales in my favor" or anything...and im not really trying to convince close minded women to be open minded or change their type by any means haha....the point of the thread to was to find out if certain women..only...or mainly are attracted to smaller build guys...and it seems like some of you have a certain preference...and some of you its a case by case basis...which is cool....and i agree with what the body builder guy ^ up there said...us bigger guys get a bad wrap...i think we definitely get stereotyped more then others....i mean im in no way as cut as him lol...so i think that hes prolly got a better shot with the ladies who do like the skinny ab guys haha so i guess im more of a powerlifter build than a body builder type...and a couple of you have been commenting on the "protection" factor...i guess that came off wrong...it was more the feeling of being protected rather than the necessary act of being protected.
And im not saying that smaller guys cant hold those girls up while there standing up...im just saying that a guy my size who can throw around 130lb dumbells with each arm like there 50lb weights will have a much easier time doing things like that....and im not attacking the skinny/cut/ripped guy boyfriends who may be rocking these ladies worlds lol...im simply stating facts...stronger=lift slightly heavier objects easier than a guy who isnt as strong....
But to those ladies who may have delusions that there 170lb bf uses dumbbells greater than 75-80 lbs for any workout other than flat bench....your delusional or hes lying to you...go watch him workout next time...and re-reading this i totally sound conceited...and for that i apologize...but it pisses me off when these guys that weigh 150-180pounds act like there crazy strong just because they have definition....and women think they must be because they have they are cut...well there most likely not...there are exceptions to that...because i played football with DB's that could rep 225 6 times..which is decent for a guy of that weight.....but those were trained college athletes....not your average 175lb joe working out at their local 24hr. fitness.
Totally gonna get ripped on for this one!! haha but i prolly deserve it...so go ahead and give it to me ladies...definitely interested to see what Bambi has to say about this...i think its going to be brutal haha...
Lol ehh...yeah it was reasonable....
Well to your first point the original figures/facts/measurements aren't to be conceited...or show off..or whatever you may think they are....it has been my experience that when a person is talking about a "Big Guy" they dont think about an athleticly built large person, they think of an obese man who like to sit around and eat ho ho's haha...so my point with the initial measurements was only to show that some Big GUyS are big not because their fat. so i guess maybe i should have just clarified instead of using dimensions...
The weight lifting comments i guess were irrelevant because most women dont know anything about weight lifting (not all...just some/most...I know there are alot of women who actually lift just as hard as men) i dont want to get them mad at me too lol...cuz i respect those women as well...but i guess to answer your question...strength may not mean much to you...but its a guy thing...we do pride ourselves on how strong we are compared to the next guy...well at least large strong guys...guys who are smaller probably pride them selves on their abs...or their hair idk haha jkjk but i guess you are correct...in a forum addressed towards women...the comments were irrelevant.
and im not attacking your bf or any other girls guy lol...im glad he has a pet name for his weights...and im glad you find him gorgeous lol.. it seems as if you are the only one taking offense to the things im saying...and im not really sure why lol....
So to make you feel better...because i believe thats what you are seeking lol....Yes...some of my comments were irrelevant to you...other commentators seemed to get the point behind what i was saying...but i can see how to you they may have been irrelevant to you....
Rest assured I am not taking any offence, I can honestly say that I don't care if you have a bigger neck than me (or my boyfriend) .... ;)
I am merely doing some eye rolling.
Nothing else worth commenting to here, I'm off to do some head shaking followed shortly by some sleeping.
LOl well i do agree with you that weight does not mean that you are automatically stronger...thats completely true...but i know for a fact that even strong guys that i work out with who weigh less just cant lift nearly as much as myself and my other buddies of comparable size. their body frames cannot handle the muscle mass needed to lift the amount of weight that we do....and no strength doesn't equate into good sex at all...or physical attraction...im not saying it should...as Bambi pointed out earlier that argument was probably irrelevant...but i wasn't arguing that stronger guys were more attractive...just pointing out that i hate smaller guys that act like their SO STRONG just because there cut...but that was completely irrelevant from a female point of view....
and i am a "Real Athlete" i played division one football on a scholarship for 4 years....i was a 300lb individual that could run a 40yrd dash in 4.9 seconds..i know that too is irrelevant to people who dont know about speed...but thats crazy good for a person of that size ( and would be a trait of an athlete)...and i agree with you...muscle heads who sit and lift all week without ever doing cardio are just setting themselves up for heart attacks later in life lol....i lift three days a week and do CrossFit 3 days a week...trust me i know what being a Real Athlete is and i dont have to have ripped shredded abs to be one...
And i never mentioned anything about fucking ability lol....I KNOW i can fuck better then most guys regardless of size or weight....and i can produce references =P haha but my whole point with the thread which quickly digressed was just to find out what ladies felt about on the topic...not to claim that one body type was better then the other....because as many said its personal preference...but my aim was to find out what that preference was lol...which has obviously greatly digressed
There is nothing wrong with big guys and you sound BIG! I mean that in a good way, like a big strong jumberjack type guy. Personally, I am more into the tall, fit guys who have well defined but not huge muscles. I would say 6'2, 180-190lbs is ideal since I am am only 5'4 1/2 and weigh 118lbs. But he is still strong enough to hold me upside down as he licks me to orgasm. I really love to do standing 69!! Its such a turn on for me.
I know women who love the big body bulider type, some who love the big tough construction worker type. But Ill take a physically fit rock star looking dude anytime!!
But as long as you like the way you look, there will be women who will find you attractive too. Confidence is huge!!! No pun intended, LOL!!
it's just me, but that's how i feel. a toned build is preferable of course, but i'm not picky bout weight as long as it's in healthy measurement, tho i will still want taller man. hey, i still want to wear those pretty high heels every now and then. lol.