Hi Lushies :-) I'm a newbie to the site and this is my very first time in a forum, so please be kind.... I'm 31 years old but have never tried anal sex. Maybe not the right timing or the right person?!? Would love to experience this but would like to ask advice from those of you who are experienced in this area. What do I need to know? What advice can you share with me? PLEASE don't make me feel foolish by asking or offer to "hey hun, I'll do you..." kind of thing, this is really a genuine question..... Thanks heaps. X
make sure to use ALOT of lube
Take your time. Plenty of lube start with one finger or a small butt plug and when you feel comfortable then get your lover to slowly enter you but always at your pace then hopefully you will enjoy the experience and become an anal junky like my wife
When I first introduced my wife to it (she was 39) I spent a lot of time teasing her anus with a well lubed finger. Very slowly and constantly reminding her to breathe and relax. I found with her that if I played with her clit as I was sliding a finger in her anus she would clench. So now I make it a point to stay away from her clit till she is good and relaxed and taking a couple of fingers. You also should seriously consider using some sort of a rubber glove it helps a ton. Also don't rush it. It can be very intense your first few times and depending on your lovers size you might not be able to handle more than a finger a two right away. Also invest in a small butt plug. I love it when my misses is worked up for anal she will put in her small butt plug and come snuggle on the couch with me to get relaxed. If you take your time you will find an amazing new sexual experience. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Everything you said is SO appreciated Lushie's.... I'm really keen to try it but I guess I have to find the right person first. Thanks so much for your understanding, support and great advice. When it finally happens I'll let you know ;-) XX
Plenty of pre-lube, then just pretend it wasn't meant to go there, but enjoy it all the same LOL
Lube, lube, lube! And start slowly.
Annilingus can be such a good experience to heighten the pleasure of cunnilingus! 
Before penetrating with my member I would prefer to give oral pleasure, time there to test the water.
, some do not
, some want to explore! 
