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Can you "Learn" to squirt?

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After a few drinks my best friend (male) and I got talking about sex. He asked me if I had ever squirted, and I replied I wasn't a squirter. He corrected me "No, you just never have. Every woman can squirt, you're just never had someone who can make you". He claims he can make any woman squirt ... but stopped just short of offering to prove it surprised(

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G spot squirting is a sexual phenomenon that has become a popular fetish over the years. This process involves a woman having an orgasm and then shooting a clear liquid out of her vagina. This is also known as female ejaculation, and it is a big turn on for a lot of men. How does it work though, and can every woman squirt? These are the kinds of questions that seemingly plague the minds of the sexually active. Here are some basic answers to frequently asked questions about squirting. They should be able to help you understand the process a little better.

There are some people that claim that every woman can squirt. The problem is that there are very few women in the world that actually do experience G spot squirting. Those that do tend to happen upon their abilities by accident, either through masturbation or through intercourse. At this time, it is not totally clear as to what the truth is. It is possible that all women can do this but only a select few know how, and it is just as possible that it is an ability that is hit or miss. You can form your opinion about it from there.

G spot squirting has become so popular because it is an obvious indication of an orgasm. Men and women alike like to watch this act in porn because it shows that the woman in the adult film is truly having an orgasm. That makes the sex seem much better and more realistic in the end. The squirting does look a bit messy, like the woman’s vagina is uncontrollably shooting water all over the place. You will just have to look at some footage of it to see what it is like for yourself.

If you are going to try to induce G spot squirting, the best idea is to get the woman involved highly aroused ahead of time. Then her body will be as ready as it can be for pleasure. You can then move on to actually stimulating the G spot through some form of penetration. If the woman has her G spot stimulated enough, her muscles will react and she will start squirting. Then you just have to worry about the cleanup afterward. Sometimes the best things in life are the messiest ones to take care of. This is no exception.

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Then you just have to worry about the cleanup afterward. Sometimes the best things in life are the messiest ones to take care of. This is no exception.


You can always take it outside...just saying...

Didn't we have a thread on this before somewhere? Feel like I'm getting deja vu...

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Sprite - wow, thank you, that is a very thorough answer!
DM - sorry, I tired to search the forum because I thought it would have been asked before now, but didn't kind anything relevant.
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After a few drinks my best friend (male) and I got talking about sex. He asked me if I had ever squirted, and I replied I wasn't a squirter. He corrected me "No, you just never have. Every woman can squirt, you're just never had someone who can make you". He claims he can make any woman squirt ... but stopped just short of offering to prove it surprised(

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Let him prove it!
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Well, I only started squirting at 35. It took me by complete surprise and my lover too. Sprite mentions that getting the woman extremely aroused can bring it on. well that is the only explanation for it happening to me. It was the first time with my lover who is 17 yrs younger than me and the most wonderful lover i have ever had. I was beside myself with desire and lust. It happens to me all the time now and to be perfectly honest i wish it didnt. Most men i have been with since then dont really enjoy the gushing and i get very self conscious about it. I tense up during oral sex to prevent squirting in his mouth!! i have learnt to control it a bit now but it still can spoil the sex for me.
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Rubytuesday. It's a shame you feel that you have control it. I absolutely love it when my wife gushes and so does she. I find it odd that you say most men don't like it. I can't get enough of it! My wife had never squirted with any past partners and I had never had a squirting partner before but it is the most amazing thing. Just find a man that loves it and let it flow. smile
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Awe Rubytuesday that's a shame you feel that way. The first time I squirted in the hubby's mouth he choked a bit and I was totally thrilled and laughed! It was like WOO HOO victory after all the cum I've sucked outta him. Being in sitting on his face position really makes it happen. Something about being upright. He likes it so I'm letting it rip. lol
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You can learn to orgasm, it's all about mindset, but I don't think you can learn how to squirt - if, in reality, any women actually do such a thing that is!
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i dont know if you can 'learn' to squirt from scratch. im naturally a very wet girl and when i cum ive always gushed of various quantities, but i know that when i manipulate my clit in a certain way as i orgasm i squirt rather than gush, not huge squirts but they go about 2ft in the air
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I first squirted when I was a teenager. I thought I had pee'd because I orgasmed so hard. For a long time I was careful not to be so aroused; afraid I would "pee" as I orgasmed. Eventually I asked my Mom about it. When she explained what it had happened, I was ok but didn't squirt for a long time after that. I don't squirt every time but when I am overly aroused and over the top into it, I do squirt. Can it be learned? I don't know but I know you can learn the signs (feelings inside) when you are about to squirt.
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I think every woman has the potential but it's easier to trigger in some than in others. Surprised the heck out of me the first time it happened at age 36!
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I never knew I could either until about 5 years ago or so. I was quite shocked the first time it happened. It's definitely not like a porno from Cytherea.....and I still have my doubts on those HUGE streams!.....but it's a straight out squirt lol. Usually during anal when it's so intense. I unfortunately can't say I can control it or do it at will, just happens. Would love to know the secret because it is an awesome feeling for both of us. For the most part though I just have really big gushes and puddles as if I had just peed all over the place lol
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I slept with a girl that cummed really hard.... Id never seen anything like iti ... I found it highly arousing, smexylucy 2ft?... Thats about right.
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My gf and her ex gf are just like you Random. they just flood or gush. Nothing shoots out or anything but I do get a mouthful and it's all over the towel we have to put under her. Rubbing her G spot with my fingers while I eat her seems to help a lot.

Ruby, if you ever want to try doing it in a guys mouth, I am sure many of us here are willing to volunteer for the job and I bet not a drop will hit the sheets.

My gf was in a relationship with the black woman we use as our avatar on the left. The first time that woman, who also didn't squirt but more gushed, gushed in her mouth, my gf was sputtering all over the place as she didn't know what it was. But she noticed it had a bit of a sweet flavor to it and she was willing to try it again now that she knew it wasn't pee. So the second time she was ready for it and got several mouthfuls and was in love. Bunny, the black woman was just like you. She would gush more and more often while sitting on my gf's face. My gf could always tell when she was about to becuase she would stop wiggling and push down hard onto her face just before she released it. The gf pretty much needs to be on her back and her g spot rubbed.
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My wife and I got together in our early forties. One day while we were having sex, she squirted, catching us both by surprise. She had never squirted before in her life, and I had never been with a woman who squirted. I can tell you that from that day to this, I do my damndest to make sure she squirts when she has an orgasm. We've been together for twenty years, and although she still squirts occasionally during intercourse, I can almost always make her squirt during oral. Life is great when you love each other that way!!
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My wife and I got together in our early forties. One day while we were having sex, she squirted, catching us both by surprise. She had never squirted before in her life, and I had never been with a woman who squirted. I can tell you that from that day to this, I do my damndest to make sure she squirts when she has an orgasm. We've been together for twenty years, and although she still squirts occasionally during intercourse, I can almost always make her squirt during oral. Life is great when you love each other that way!!
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I've only squirted once and that was with a guy that really turned me on.
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I am not sure if you can "learn" to squirt. But I had never squirted until I hit my mid 30's. I really didnt do anything much different, at least consciously, but I just became more in tuned with my body and suddenly sex got so much better. I began to have multiple orgasms and sometimes I squirt.

So for those of you who do not squirt,dont give up hope!!
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After a few drinks my best friend (male) and I got talking about sex. He asked me if I had ever squirted, and I replied I wasn't a squirter. He corrected me "No, you just never have. Every woman can squirt, you're just never had someone who can make you". He claims he can make any woman squirt ... but stopped just short of offering to prove it surprised(

Your thoughts?


It is possible to 'learn' although it is harder for some women than others. You need to hit the right spots and simultaneous stimulation of the clit and hard thrusting of inside the pussy. When you get the 'I need to pee' feeling don't stop keep it going and woosssshhhh.
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I will agree, I think all women have the ability to squirt or gush or whatever you want to call it, it just takes time, patience, the right toy or man and an open mind - half the time women are so stressed out over it that they kill any chance of it actually happening. Having said that, squirting across the room like they do in porn isn't real...sorry to pop your bubble on that one guys :P For me personally, I had no idea I was capable until just a few months ago and it happened by accident - had the right toy, found the right spot and sweet Jesus! I'm much more of a gusher than a squirter and I don't do it all the time because quite frankly, I hate sleeping on a wet sheets ;)
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I will agree, I think all women have the ability to squirt or gush or whatever you want to call it, it just takes time, patience, the right toy or man and an open mind - half the time women are so stressed out over it that they kill any chance of it actually happening. Having said that, squirting across the room like they do in porn isn't real...sorry to pop your bubble on that one guys :P For me personally, I had no idea I was capable until just a few months ago and it happened by accident - had the right toy, found the right spot and sweet Jesus! I'm much more of a gusher than a squirter and I don't do it all the time because quite frankly, I hate sleeping on a wet sheets ;)


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Make him prove it
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The first time a girl squirted with me we were on a beach and she was on top of me. She tensed up and covered my groin and stomach. She surprised herself. Now when I think about it, I get horny wishing I could make a woman do that again.
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There is a guy named jason julius that sells a multiple dvd set called the orgasm blueprint, says that he will teach the techniques to make a woman squirt. Have not bought the set but the "freebees" he sent out work wonders on my wife.