hi I notice that when my girl is on top she can`t stop herself until get Orgasom once she strted pumping me..we both wanted she being long on top ..any advise?
Grip her hips with your hands and control and steer her movements in order to slow her down when she starts getting too intense.
You can also bring her to a temporary stop and light grind while you pull things back and have some lighter foreplay fun like biting her nipples, kissing or rubbing her clit and fingering her ass. That way she's still in a high pleasure zone and you're able to slow the intensity down so that you don't come too fast.
Obviously I assume you're talking about delaying your orgasm and not hers. If she comes once, she can come again during the same ride.
When she gets too intense, raise your upper body so you're in sitting up position, then kiss her lips while hold her waist so she can slow down and enjoy the kiss. I did this everytime when my wife got too excited riding me and I wanted to delay the orgasm.
Hubby does some of the same to me that DD stated.
Another thing he will do is bring his knees up and lift his hips so I can't raise up. Or if he does it right, he will lift me up and just hold me where his cockhead is barely touching me and I start squirming and wanting that to fill me.
Once he has me going crazy, he usually has control of himself and then resumes.
Later, he will pump into me and bounce me off his hips so he pops out and rubs his cock against the crack of my bum for a while and I grind against him before trying to slip him back and into me.
It can be annoying and frustrating some of the things he does but it keeps us going!
Kisses!
Steph
I'm happy to stay on top for as long as he can keep an erection. Realising sex is a two way thing I don't get over excited in my own quest for orgasm - just allow them to arrive when they do and then slow down or stop awhile. Once I've satisfied my own lust to completion we move to the 'missionary' position such that he can pump his sperm deep inside me and there it will hopefully stay - but not always.
Hell yes! I don't mind the break at all — ride me cowgirl!!! I love it. I'll grip those hips and squeeze those tits and sometimes I can finger that clit as she rides me hard, grinding back & forth, bouncing up & down. I love it!!!!
I actual enjoy when they are on top but the work for me doesn't stop there.
To boldly Lush where no one has Lushed before
Cowgirl Up! Bein' on top is awsome!! My favorite (of course) is my own version of reverse cowgirl... read some of my stories it is explained in detail there... ;) I will be on top the whole time if he will allow it... rowr! lol. all good though, forward, rev, rev mod, in a chair... on top for me is the best... Giddy Up!!! Yee Haw!!!
I'm thinking I have to intake practical instruction from the guru above
To boldly Lush where no one has Lushed before
I love to be on top. I can control myself and him. Of course once I start cumming, I can't stop. I usually soak him and the bed.
