when you were a virgin...what did you think fucking was going to be like, yanno...before you actually went 'there'?
Man, I was fucking clueless.
As a matter of fact, I consider myself to have been fucking clueless for about 12 'new' partners into the whole fucking scene.
Every single female (back then...and still to this day) was/is.......different.
But, thankfully...some things remain the same.
is fucking everything, you were led to believe it was...(or were afraid it was)?
I kind of like it.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
I not only Kinda like it,
I kinda love it
My first time, we were both virgins. We had no idea really. It was actually our second attempt before we pulled it off. We had talked about doing it for months before. We kept dating until we graduated high school so we did get a lot better. Our best experience was 3 years after high school when we were juniors in college. We went to different colleges but just happened to be home the same weekend and got together. We had both learned a lot while off at school.
My 1st time was with my 18 y.o. g/f who was far from being a virgin and had quite a bit of experience. However, she wasn't into everything I was interested in doing. After graduating from high school i spent 9 yrs in the navy, traveled 3/4 of the way around the world and experienced a lot more than I had ever fantasized about!
I had no idea what a g spot was, I was completely clueless. Plus he didn't take his time, it wasn't very good. Then there were the few years that I thought of sex as completely overrated, before I ever even knew what vanilla was or recognized that my tastes were most definitely not. When I lost my virginity it wasn't anything like what I'd expected. I was waiting for the sensations that were going to make me scream out in pleasure........the reality, not so much. It took me a long time and lots of practice before I knew what I liked, so I'd have to say love it.
Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important.
I was OBSESSED by sex from a really early age, in fact I can remember devouring the 'dirty' bits in popular novels even before I was old enough to masturbate!
When I first started actually experimenting sexually with real girls, (and by then I'd become pretty much an expert with the whole masturbation thing...) it was better than I could have imagined. I can remember the sensation of just feeling incredibly LUCKY that I was getting to do this for real after years of imaginings.
And I really was very lucky because the fact that I loved the kisses and the fumbles and the beauty of the female body meant that I was quite a gentle boyfriend, never rushing or being too forceful not least because I thought that if I was she might make me stop!
Also, I discovered the exquisite pleasure of Pleasuring Someone Else.... In those days in Ireland nice girls were taught NOT to do that kind of thing and to take a girlfriend from the stage where she brushes your hands away from her breasts to the stage, weeks later, where she grabs your hand within seconds and plunges it beneath her skirt.... Well, yes, I found that delightful.
When I finally joined the big boys club I did it with a long-time girlfriend who I adored. We were both virgins and we were both very comfortable sexually with each other and it was perfect. And for the record, we both sobbed afterwards! And we ended up getting very good at it, imagining that SURELY sex for other people couldn't be this good. If it were, nobody would ever do anything else!
As I've grown older, (I won't use the word 'matured') I find I retain a lot of those attitudes. I still worship women and STILL get a sense of wonder when I'm intimate with a lover. I've learned a few tricks, (I'm not ALWAYS as gentle as I once was!) but it remains better than anything I could imagine.
The combination of tenderness, passion, control, surrender, beauty, fun, irreverence, absolute truthfullness, love-if-you're-lucky and downright nasty kinkiness is still my favourite drug.
People often say, "If I'd known then what I know now...." but I'm kinda glad I didn't.
And I've been BLESSED with my ladies, every last one of them. And that, thankfully, continues...(Even now, in the throes of passion I sometimes think about the fumbling, patient young man I was and I think, "He'd LOVE this..." And of course, he does!
xx SF
My first sex ever was with another girl. I didnt know what to expect as it wasnt something I had planned on doing. We really had no idea what we were doing but just did what seemed right. Each time it got better and better until we got to the point that it was amazing. But even then, when I was with a boy for the first time, I still didnt know what it would be like. I did assume I would have an orgasm since I did with the girl but would it be the same? It happened a few years after the girl and it was very awkward. We did it in his brothers car after an Iron Maiden concert. My favorite Iron Maiden song, Rime of the Ancient Mariner was playing on the cassette (remember those)as we fucked. We were both pretty high too, not sure if that was a good or bad thing. I do remember that it didnt last anywhere near as long as the song ,LOL! And I didnt have an orgasm, I was a little disappointed but also relieved that I had got it over with and was no longer a virgin. We fucked again when we got home and it really was no better, but I did feel more comfortabale doing it.
I dated this guy for another 6 months or so and it got much better as we both gained confidence and experience.
Like with most things, the more I did it, the better I got at it and the more I enjoyed it!!
And now, well.......................................!!!!!!!
I had no idea what it would feel like. we all talked about it but when it happened well then I knew...............................................................
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