What is the real reason for it?
Is it because all their best mates do it or is it biological or just to know they can get a hot girl or are they just always horny?
What percent of men do you think cheat?
xx B.
Woman cheat as well you know, i wouldnt say it was something thats just exclusive to men
I think it is just human nature, I agree it is not the domain of just one sex.
Everone is looking for something new in there lives to keep them young and fresh thinking.
Why do people cheat?
As MM said, however lately I get a lot of this: 'My wife is not enough for me'
Go figure
I try not to reply on "Ask the gals" for one obvious reason - why is this this not under "ask the guys"?
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NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber There was a study I read about that showed some men were more prone to cheating due to some chemical make up. I think most cheating has to do with insecurity, sometimes availability and sometimes a little bit of both. Quoted this once before, but still rings true:
"A man is as faithful as his options." -- Chris Rock.
I think that...
Men cheat because their sex life doesn't suit their needs.
Women cheat because their love life doesn't suit their needs
Kimasa, I think anyone who cheats does so because some need is not being fulfilled.
Of course the ironic thing with that pattern you've identified there is that it assumes the cheater has stayed in an unsatisfactory relationship. It suggests men will stay in a relationship with unsatisfactory sex for the sake of emotion, while women will stay in an emotionally unfulfilling relationship if the sex is good.
Just saying. :P
Why do some men cheat? 'cause they feel more for the second woman...
Hmmm, I'm going to be a pain in the ass and point out that men are like women in that we're not all exactly the same.
Some women cheat to get more/different sex, an ego stroke, emotional support, attention, love, cash and prizes, whatever, and men aren't so very different. Yes, the median shifts between the sexes but the reasons are as varied for both.
I'm still laughing at a recent study where they took a pretty (read "symmetric") college woman and had her approach men on campus to ask if they'd have sex with her. 100% said "yes"--married, with a gf, or single. They repeated the experiment with a young man approaching women and 0% said "yes". The researchers concluded that men cheat "beacause they can" i.e., that it's simply opportunity. Of course the experiment was stupid since we all knew the answer already. Would have been a shitty day for the guy though, I hear he'll be getting out of the ICU soon, lol (kidding). I disagree. I've had lots of opportunities I haven't taken.
Another study showed that women's preferences for men changes from 'nice guys' (gentle, stable, constant types) most of the time to 'alpha males' (strong, more assertive, more forceful) guys when they're ovulating. The conclusion here was the women want a stable life partner but want to breed with an "alpha". They actually said birth control is screwing all this up since women will often pick a life without really ovulating so when they stop taking bc pills, they discover a primal need for a guy that's the total opposite of their husband. They also said, basically, that it's a bad time in history for "manly men" since most women don't ovulate and so don't want them. Any of the women want to comment on that? lol.
In many species the genetic drive in males is to find as many partners as possible, while in the female the drive is to find the best partner.
Not that I'm saying this is the entire story for sentient humans with the ability to think past their instincts, but it could be a factor. Of course both sides of that theory could be an explanation for cheating.
My husband has never cheated on me nor have never I cheated on him and never will. We are both free to have sex with whom we want and where we want.
It is just about sex.
Seems we are back to the old distinction between love and sex. Have we not been here time and again?
Because we can?
It's forbidden, exciting, scandalous, dangerous, and well, because it's sex.
whether men or women they both do cheating if given a chance however always guys caught than women, but in fact when percentage is involve has equivalent numbers
Men cheat for the same reason as women - excitement and danger.