couple things actually
are you one or do you know of any one that just does not get off on a blowjob? while, even if you like all thats being done, you just cant get to climax that way?
also, this is your chance to tell us all what would make for a fantastic blowjob for you... any special movements, etc. .. anything you wished she would try... something you always wanted but didnt think it was ok to ask for fear she would feel like you were criticizing? anything you just do not want to happen at all? aside from a hard tooth scrape of course
soooooo, like the title says
what makes for a really great blowjob for you you?
Well, I expect most women on here will know the general technique to use, then just adjust things slightly when she can feel/sense that that man is enjoying that part specifically, be it licking under the helmet, balls etc etc. Thats where communication is needed between the two of you.
The main thing to me that makes a blow job more enjoyable is sensing that the women is enjoying pleasing their man. I hate to have my shaft gripped so tightly and yanked so hard I fear it's going to fall off and have her suck so hard I think she'll swallow my helmet! This is all fine at the point of climax. But, it should be more of an exploration of her mouth, tounge and fingers. Exploring all areas down there as we have many sensitive parts that we like tickled, licked, sucked etc etc.
So, I would say, it's more about taking time down there to explore and enjoy the moment rather than a rush to make the man climax as fast as possible.
I hope this helps.
The key is, as SE touched on, that the woman likes giving oral. If she likes doing it than she's probably really creative about it and moans and looks you in the eye and plays with your balls etc...
The ones that don't like doing it have to be guided and reminded that teeth don't feel good, you have to ask if you can cum in their mouth. You have to ask for a blow job to begin with.. Nothing is spontaneous and it translates over to their technique..
Oh good im on the right track, I looooove giving it and knowing that i am giving him so much pleasure is such a turn on
And if any UK based ladies are still unsure, feel free to drop me a line to discuss it! Available for hands (and mouth) on practise if needed!
Agreed if the woman is not a a BJ enthusiast it's not the same.
I am fortunate to have a girl that loves sucking cock. The thing that works the best for me is to change it up a little. Start by licking everything you can, get him revved up and wanting more. Then you can slide down and hopefully take it all in - a little moan not only gets my mind going but the vibrations it creates are delicious!
Have any of you ladies tried stimulating his "P spot"? Yes it means putting your finger up his butt, to many men that will create an overwhelming orgasm. I have had my biggest orgasms every when she does that to me. Hope that helps!
I can only relate to the best blowjob I ever had. Just about everything that has been mentioned so far with a small twist. Evey time she got me close to cumming she would back off. She would then sit back and play with herself while holding me and then start the process all over again. She touched, licked, nibbled and sucked me everywhere and brought me to the brink at least 5 or 6 times. When I finally did cum (well over an hour later) I thought I was going to blow a hole in the back of her head. It was incredibly intense!
I make a offer, you can't refuse! I have trouble cumming from just BJs but I will echo several thoughts that have been brought up:
1) Enthusiasm is essential. When a woman grabs your cock and moans while sucking you off it is majorly hot!!
2) I love dirty talk before and during the BJ. Telling me how much you want to swallow my cum or how bad you want to suck my cock gets me ready to pop!
I get off on lots of noise especially slurping and moaning. The clincher for me is a woman on her knees with my cock in her hands telling me how bad she wants me while looking up into my eyes with that "I want to fuck you" look...
Id just add in addition to technique i find it so horny when my girl looks me straight in the eyes as she sucks it. phwoar. I too have often had the pleasure of giving 'head' i love it and its horny but sometimes makes my jaw ache. At such times id love to have my gf taking turns with me to suck it, & of course exchange the sexy fixed stare. Surprisingly i find in general women do it better than men,
I'd be willing to be a test subject if anyone needs to practice their technique. hahah right..
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Enthusiasm and Enjoyment( for the giver)
I can tell when she wants to make me cum. That is when its the BEST!
I think lubrication is key. Lots of saliva with the tongue exploring everywhere is the best feeling. After exploration, there is the constant rythym leading up to the climax, which of course has to be in the mouth till completion.
Well to answer amber's first query, I personally havent cum from a blowjob. Make no mistake though I loved every second of every one I have ever gotten!
Points to note:
The girl needs to enjoy it! Not be made to just give it, she needs to enjoy the sensation of pleasing me. Know she has ultimate power over me for that time.
She needs to feel the rush of having my cock in her mouth and her tongue sliding up the shaft.
My helmet is hyper sensitve but I've notice that if she sucks slowly it feels right.
I like the girl enjoying and want her to. I feel better and more aroused knowing the girl is so into that she knows that I'm enjoying her mouth. Having her look at me and keep eye contact makes it even better!!!! Let her talk how she likes it and how she likes how she makes me her.
This is a mutual thing. If a girl doesn't want to give it then I won't force, but it won't stop me from pleasure. Hehe even if I can cum . I will make her ! I enjoy going down on a girl, so if the blowjob is given ill return the favour with enthusiasm!!
Teasing... I love a good tease.
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