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What's your opinion on hair pulling in bed?

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Magical_felix
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Does it turn you on? Do you hate it? Do you put up with it because your partner likes it? Do you like it in certain positions like doggystyle? Is it too rapey for your tastes? Do you like it but your partner isn't the Dom type and not into it? How does it make you feel?

What are your feelings on this?
Dancing_Doll
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I LOVE it!!! Especially during doggystyle and anal. It just adds to the intensity of the experience, and tends to work nicely with dirty talk.

I keep my hair long partly because I enjoy having it played with, pulled, tugged, yanked during sex. I'm not sure why I enjoy it so much, but I suspect it has something to do with feeling controlled and dominated.

I've never been with a guy that hasn't been willing to indulge me.
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I love it, as well! I have short hair, but there's always enough to grab. To me it's a passion thing. I know he's really into if he's grabbing my hair!! YUMMY!
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It's wonderful, if done right. There are so many nerve endings in the scalp, that it is a real turn on.
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Oh God yes I love it, well I just know it is part of rough sex and what a turnon.

Seems like every nerve in my body is flashing their electric charges.

If you are not rough up and dominated a bit it is kind of vanilla sex the kind the some couples get into after years together.

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I love it and it turns me on.
I make love or I fuck and it doesn't matter if I am in love with a guy or is he my sex partner.. The point is that when I fuck pulling hair is a must, just like dirty whisper, it's part of the sex game.
The same thing is when there is time just for a quickie and pulling hair by man makes it feel that he is in control that he knows what he is doing and that is most arousing thing for me. Confidence.
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I'd have to say that it is a turn on for me as well. I loved to b manhandled so to speak and that just adds to it. To know that someone is strong enough to do what they want with you is very...well it just flat does it for me
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Magical_felix
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Thank you girls for the detailed responses.
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my opinion...harder please! love it when im on all fours and he gathers into a pony tail and pulls me onto him by it.
DazzlingLove
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One of the biggest reasons I keep it long !
sazraz
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i love it when i'm on all 4s...thats part of the reason why im growing my hair longer again :P
LadyX
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bow chicka bow wow!
It is usually best when i'm getting it from behind. rather awkward while in the missionary.


Great visual there! LOL

I agree, and glad to see how much company I have in the "pull my hair, fucker!" preference.
Magical_felix
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bow chicka bow wow!
It is usually best when i'm getting it from behind. rather awkward while in the missionary.


Come to think of it hair pulling in any other position besides doggystyle is kind of funny.
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bow chicka bow wow!
It is usually best when i'm getting it from behind. rather awkward while in the missionary.


Come to think of it hair pulling in any other position besides doggystyle is kind of funny.


I have one that is not doggystyle but it is behinde though..

..facing up the wall or shower, he is behinde me in one hand he is having my leg in the other my hair and with some dirty whispers to my ear and I can sing bow chicka bow wow!
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I love it, it just makes the sex more exciting! I think that always happens when you thrown in roughness
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Oh yeah. Grab a handful and yank my head all the way back (:
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I Love having my hair pulled, especailyl during doggystyle. Its a big turn on for me, its a big reason why I won't cut my hair.
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Quote by Magical_felix
Does it turn you on? Do you hate it? Do you put up with it because your partner likes it? Do you like it in certain positions like doggystyle? Is it too rapey for your tastes? Do you like it but your partner isn't the Dom type and not into it? How does it make you feel?

What are your feelings on this?



I was with a woman once, she was a bit thuggish, she was sucking my lovely lovely weapon, and I just started stroking her hair very gently, and then she stopped and snapped very agressively "you dont need to force me to do it, I like it".

Jeez... I was lucky she didnt kick my ass or something.
Dancing_Doll
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If you're into hair pulling, it's important to know how to do it right. I love this article for explaining the proper way to dominate a partner through hair pulling. This is just an excerpt but it might be worth going to the actual link for more info, including how to do it in different positions, and even some pics on "do's and don'ts"...



The correct way is to grab your partner’s hair close to the skull, preferably at the base of the skull in the center rear, and hold it as you’re fucking. You want to either lace your fingers through her hair and grab it, or if it is long enough for you to form a ponytail out of it and grab that, you can do it that way if you wish. Regardless of length, the secret is to grab her hair as close to the skull as you can.

This has three distinct advantages.

1. It allows you to control her, which is one of the biggest reasons for using hair in the first place. When you have a handful of hair close to the skull, you can control the movement of her head, which by default controls her. Notice in the image above where he’s got her hair. Can he use that to control her in any way? Not even close. It might make for a good visual (that’s what porn is all about, no?), but it does little if you’re actually trying to dominate someone.

2. It provides leverage. Having a handful of your partner’s hair allows you to use her weight to counter yours as you’re pounding away from behind. You can use it to pull her back into you as you thrust forward, making the physical aspects (and therefore the psychological ones) of the fucking more intense.

3. It is much safer for her. As I indicated above, grabbing hair that far out actually moves the pivot point from the base of your hand where it’s grabbing the hair to a point in her neck. That jerking of her head back like that can result in a whiplash effect, one that may not be apparent for several hours after the sex.

http://www.realprincessdiaries.com/2010/04/grab-my-hair-while-youre-fucking-me/

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she was sucking my lovely lovely weapon.


Just out of curiosity, what are you referring to, here?

I need a clarification from the judges, please.
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she was sucking my lovely lovely weapon.


Just out of curiosity, what are you referring to, here?

I need a clarification from the judges, please.



I was referring to my cock, sorry for the missunderstanding.
LadyX
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she was sucking my lovely lovely weapon.


Just out of curiosity, what are you referring to, here?

I need a clarification from the judges, please.



I was referring to my cock, sorry for the missunderstanding.





damn, you were just talking about penis- well I guess I have to start my own gun fetish thread then.
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If you're into hair pulling, it's important to know how to do it right. I love this article for explaining the proper way to dominate a partner through hair pulling. This is just an excerpt but it might be worth going to the actual link for more info, including how to do it in different positions, and even some pics on "do's and don'ts"...


Nice info! This should be distributed for all aspiring hair pullers to read.
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If you're into hair pulling, it's important to know how to do it right. I love this article for explaining the proper way to dominate a partner through hair pulling. This is just an excerpt but it might be worth going to the actual link for more info, including how to do it in different positions, and even some pics on "do's and don'ts"...


Nice info! This should be distributed for all aspiring hair pullers to read.



Though I am not an expert in sex, (hard to believe, I know), I think a man should have read the body language of the woman before doing any hair pulling, so he can determine what degree of control she's asking him to apply upon her.

I am talking of the first time they have sex, when they are not sure what the other likes or dislikes, reading your partner's body language would decrease the chances of doing the hair pulling in the wrong way.

This apply to the hair of the head as well...
Magical_felix
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I am talking of the first time they have sex, when they are not sure what the other likes or dislikes, reading your partner's body language would decrease the chances of doing the hair pulling in the wrong way.


Nah man, you got to just go for it. If you ask permission and try to be a gentleman about it, it defeats the domination fantasy about hair pulling for both of you. If she doesn't like it just stop, I'm sure she won't kick you out of bed unless she's super uptight.
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Quote by Jillicious
bow chicka bow wow!
It is usually best when i'm getting it from behind. rather awkward while in the missionary.


I like it in missionary and in all other positions. The harder the better.
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One of the biggest reasons I keep it long !


ha ha mmmmm, I think I just found a new reason to keep my hair long
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If you ask permission .



I don´t mean asking her, just checking her body language, checking her breathing, her moves, if she is tense or relaxed, if she looks more or less submissive, etc, not all women like hair pulling, so reading her body language first will spare you having to ask her anything.
Bunny12
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Not so much into having my hair pulled but don't mind doing the pulling! Would be nice if you held my hair out of my face when I'm sucking your dick though lol
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It can be very erotic depending on my mood. Usually when i'm kneeling in front of a guy sucking him and he is using my hair to control my head movements or when he is pounding me from behind doggy , if I ask for it hard and fast and he adds the hair pulling to the experience it can be what takes me over the top.

When it hurts too much I can always say stop and usually they do smile