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How do you feel about dirty talk during sex?

Wanted? Unwanted? Required?

How dirty do you like it to be? And would you be offended if a guy brought it out during the first time having sex?
Alpha Blonde
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Personally I really love it. In the heat of the moment, the dirtier the better in my opinion.

It's not "required" for first time sex, but definitely something I'd need to be part of a long term relationship.

I have my tickle trunk of toys and costumes and wigs, and if you're doing any kind of role play, dirty-talk is going to have to factor in to some degree.

It might just be my own experiences, but I've found many men to be reluctant with dirty talk. It seems to be either something one enjoys, or just avoids completely.

There have been situations, where I am doing all the talking, and while the guy I am with acts enthused and excited by everything I am saying, he is more action-oriented in response instead of verbal. It's not the end of the world, but it can be frustrating when you want to develop a bit of interplay. I do find it makes sex so much hotter, and much more playful. It develops more of a bond or interplay with my partner that I find very exciting!
Advanced Wordsmith
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I love it! Definitely a turn on for me. As with all things, it can be done well or it can be done.
I'm sure we'll hear from lot's of other women that would rather leave it out.
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I enjoy it too - it can really make good sex great.
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depends on the mood that has been created.. It's an awesome afrodesiac. depending on the intensity of the moment too, sometimes subtle flirts of vulgarity, other times pure unadultarated lust filled angry language...
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What is "Dirty Talk"?

I am beginning to think, after reading many posts on this subject, that I might not be on the same page as everyone else. If I put down words as an example of the vocalizations I or the other have used during sex, you might say "That's dirty talk", but I don't think of it as "dirty talk" given the context of a particular moment. To me it would be spice.

To me "dirty talk" is the gratuitous bullshit you see (hear) in bad porn movies. I am not big on vulgarity although some people I like and respect are, to each their own.

There was a topic on bad sex. Here is one of mine. I was having casual sex with a woman I met at a convention. I wanted to tell her to shut the fuck up, I found her constant dialog so distracting. I just had to stop it. There was no point, there was no connection between us and the chatter was a substitute. I would have had a better time going to my room alone, putting on a pay-per-view porn movie and masturbating.

On the other hand, when there is a connection with the other, then the same chatter would not be "dirty talk", we would be relating with each other. A moderate level of vocalization has its appeal, but there are other ways to turn things up a notch.
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If only my husband was into dirty talk, things would really be progressing in the bedroom!! It is so sexual when you are being completly satisfied by your partner and the vixen in you or me in this case comes out!!
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My honey loves when I talk dirty to her
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I love to talk dirty during sex, but it also depends on the mood. If I am having wild sex, then the dirtier the better.
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I, for one love it. I find that dirty talk can turn a plain sexual encounter into a hot sexual encounter! The more the better as far as I'm concerned. And the dirtier, the better! Its a great way to increase arousal and to communicate urges or fantasies that couples may not otherwise share.

Maybe its because I'm so unsophisticated though?
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i love dirty talk. theres nothing better than having your brain as stimulated as your body. mmm..to have his voice whispering all the naughty things hes going to do to me in my ear is a great turn on for me. just thinking about it turns me on...
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Dirty talk can make good sex great!
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Im more into dirty whispers than dirty talk. I tend to giggle when he just talks dirty, but when he whispers it and I can feel his lips on my ear... yum.
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The moment defines the language. If we have been flirty all night and a bit juiced up, the dirty talk can be invigorating if the dirty talk is real. However, it can be distracting if it is fake sounding as Kyle suggests.
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i just love dirty chat. it can really make sex great.
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We don't always talk dirty, but when we do, it usually transforms good sex into great sex as we both have pretty good imaginations. It's also good for spur of the moment role playing.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
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I used to love dirty talk with my ex husband. He'd talk in my ear just before I was about to cum it never failed. Usually it was about me naked against a window and hium fucking be behind or tied to a tree and him fucking me. It got quite addictive and I felt I couldn't cum without the dirty talk in my ear. It was a fool prop orgasm for me everytime me made love.
Artistic Tart
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I like it sometimes but its a fine line. Some guys go there and like HoneyBee it just makes me gush and shudder. And a good low whisper with a growl can be amazing. Other guys try it and I'm turning around like "what the f__k is that supposed to be?" lol. But when done well, damn theres nothing like it!
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I feel like a minority here with the women of Lush bring on that filthy dirty talk in my ear and make me weak with your words also if done with an accent omg I'm your come to me
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Quote by LadyX
I like it sometimes but its a fine line. Some guys go there and like HoneyBee it just makes me gush and shudder. And a good low whisper with a growl can be amazing. Other guys try it and I'm turning around like "what the f__k is that supposed to be?" lol. But when done well, damn theres nothing like it!


yeah you me and doll so that's us three yipeee
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I love it the dirtier and raunchier the better. Treat me like the whore part of me that you love so much. God I love a lover who really get into it.

One danger I may flood you if your are hiting just the right notes and telling me just the right things.

Hope that is not all bad kids.
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Seems all the ladies seem to enjoy it. Does anyone not like it? Or do you know of anyone that does not like it? Aside from Kyle that is.

Is there anything a guy could say that you would consider a bit "too far"?
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don't do much dirty talk but i find it interesting smile
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Quote by WHR43
I love it the dirtier and raunchier the better. Treat me like the whore part of me that you love so much. God I love a lover who really get into it.

One danger I may flood you if your are hiting just the right notes and telling me just the right things.

Hope that is not all bad kids.


I second u on this!!!
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Dirty talk is the best........I tend to agree with everyone above, the dirtier the better!! It really adds to the moment and makes the sex that all the more hotter!!!!
Advanced Wordsmith
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So encouraging to see so many of you gals into dirty talk! Lord knows I love it!
I'm a wild and Krrraaazzzy Guy!
Active Ink Slinger
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I love dirty talk. i don't want to be called a slut... but just about every other dirty and naughty words turn me on.
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Quote by shy123
If only my husband was into dirty talk, things would really be progressing in the bedroom!! It is so sexual when you are being completly satisfied by your partner and the vixen in you or me in this case comes out!!


Now Shy get off his back about his language. We both know he has done his primary job!!LOL
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Dirty talk = dirty sex. The more the better.