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Posted: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 3:39:42 AM

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leslieee wrote:
There is never a good reason to cheat. If you're not happy in the relationship, it's simple... Leave and find someone who will give you all the sex you want.

Posted: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 3:44:00 AM

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I dont know why ppl try and justify something by asking others, when deep down they already know the answer. Its never ok to cheat, and if you cant stay faithful dont be in a relationship, never mind marriage!
Posted: Monday, December 26, 2011 10:40:09 AM

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No, It's never okay.
Talk to someone else on the internet in my opinion, in a sexual way. Is still wrong.
There are hundreds of reasons why it has become sexless, but you shouldn't just cheat on your partner. Kinda selfish.
If you have a problem and don't think you can remain faithful, your partner deserves to know and y'all should talk about it at least.

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Posted: Monday, January 09, 2012 3:43:48 AM

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I agree with bunny12. I'm stuck in an intimacy- less marriage and it hurts.
Posted: Wednesday, January 11, 2012 9:53:33 PM

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I had one affair in my life and got caught. Really not a fun memory... almost became a single dad. I'd always been faithful up until that point, but when a starving man sees a buffet, it's almost impossible to stop him. So my answer is: It's not right But neither is it right to stave your partner of sensuality.

...wonderful cunnilingus from butt-hole to naval since 1986.
Posted: Thursday, January 12, 2012 4:57:14 AM

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I think really if you feel that sex is becoming less you need to open up and have a serious talk. It could be a mental problem or a physical problem.

If you go somewhere else to have sex the partner will and normally do find out and that's when chaos is going to abound.

I wouldn't do it.
Posted: Thursday, February 09, 2012 12:54:04 PM

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There are lot of comments, mostly from women, about who it is NEVER acceptable to cheat. I was in computer club several years back. One of the regulars, a guy in his thirties, was married to a woman, in her thirties, who often came to club meetings, who was confined to a wheelchair (due to some some medical problem she developed before they met). She also had limited use of one arm, and some imparirment in the other. They obvioiusly had a sexless marriage. One night the guy confided in me that every few weeks, he would get sex somewhere (I think with an escort, but he didn't say). He didn't say so directly, but I got the idea he married because, he was tired of the drama of his past relationships and liked talking with her. (She was well read, and an interesting person). I think most of us would give this guy a pass on his infedilty.

Other times, the reasons infidelity for a sexless marriage may not be so obvious, but are just as real. I say don't be too quick to judge.
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