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Posted: Saturday, December 31, 2011 10:47:17 PM

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i love my bf so much, but im always sexting and talking 2 other men and women, he knows about lush and asked me to delete my naked pics, i did to some, but idk bout the rest? should i do what he asks and delete everything or what?? im confussed??
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 2:42:30 PM

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First, I wouldn't want you to delete your pics as they're very very sexy. But you have to ask yourself, if he's being unreasonable asking that. And maybe that answer would come from asking yourself, how you would feel if he did the same; sexted and posted pics of himself.
Posted: Monday, January 02, 2012 3:14:55 PM

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It depends on how much you value this relationship.

People have different levels of what makes them "uncomfortable" when it comes to cheating.

Some don't consider anything cheating unless there is physical contact with another person, and others will consider sexting, exchanging naked photos and phone sex as cheating.

Your boyfriend seems to be of the latter persuasion.

You can try explaining to him that the photo sharing fulfills your exhibitionist side and that flirting and sexting with people is just for fun and no different than masturbating to porn and that you'd never meet these people in real life so he shouldn't feel threatened by any of it.

Maybe you should encourage him to do the same. Or does that make you feel uncomfortable to think of him taking photos of his dick to send to an online girlfriend and sexting her dirty messages when you're not around or your back is turned?

If that idea doesn't bother you at all, then you clearly just have differing opinions on what monogamy means in your relationship and probably need to have a talk if you want to maintain more of your sexual freedom. Or, you may find your relationship important enough to indulge him and play the way he wants to.

There's no right or wrong but if one person has a problem with what you're doing and considers it cheating, then something has to give in order to continue in a healthy relationship. It just depends on what's more important to you.
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