if one aristocratic and very beautiful, sexy girl, woman is surrounded by obligation (lets say at work) men not of her taste and class. she has no time and luxury cause of the lots of work hours to have any other flirt, going out or relations with her taste.
If those men starts a tactic to make her feel undesirable and just another chik! (not what she is used to!) in how long she will say gladly "YES3 to the first one that will ask her out from those men??????????

I agree. This is a foolish game.

By treating women badly they will not like you and even worse than this is why you would want a girl that has no self esteem. Thinking that she will "gladly" say YES to any pathetic desperate boy just because she doesn't feel admired or appreciated? What macho self help book did this come from? Dating for Dummies?

If those men are not of her status then let her make that decision of her own and steer clear. There are lots of girls that will be happy to date those men who are of lower 'taste and class' as you described them. This beautiful and aristocratic woman is clearly out of their league. One can't always get what they want so its best to be aware of one's position on the totem pole and stick to it. These are just simple realities in the ways of l'amour.

xx B.