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Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 5:13:49 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 11/7/2012
Posts: 12
Location: United States
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 2:03:41 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 11/14/2013
Posts: 7
Location: United Kingdom
I am most definatley a sub. It all started when I was younger. I was always attracted and interested in the thought of simply 'being bound' to someone. Always being lower than someone. Yet, I couldn't figure out why. In my early teens I'd find myself feeling all giddy and having this warm feeling in my chest whenever I saw a movie or read about a girl in shackles or chained, waiting to take orders from someone much higher than her.

It all started to make sense when I explored my sexual desires. Simple things like being spanked, taking orders, love & respect, devotion; pain & pleasure all made sense to me. And I became more knowledgeable about why all these things made me feel this way.

Being submissive doesn't define me; but it certainly is an important part of who I am.

Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealists, searching for the marvelous.
Posted: Friday, November 22, 2013 2:54:38 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 3/4/2008
Posts: 57
I was with a dom who left the country and introduced me to the most fabulous dom imaginable - fun to be with whilst being ever so strict when she has to be
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 6:51:25 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 4/26/2013
Posts: 18
Location: Canada
I found my Dom right here on Lush ^_^, he was interested in my writing, and sent me a PM, we moved on from there and I am so happy we were able to meet, all by chance.
Posted: Tuesday, April 08, 2014 3:33:41 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 3/5/2014
Posts: 941
Location: ♥


I was someone who ADAMANTLY did not want or believe in internet relationships, LD-dating, or even looking for that. I wasn't looking.

I was on another semi-social site that was about various popular things, (NON-sexual), and we actually met through comments in a place related to our favourite anime. He said hello on wall posts to me and proceeded to come by every day to see how I was and say hi. :)

We became interet buddies and then friends and then best friends. We instantly had a connection. Sometimes that happens with people, but our connection was much much stronger. I do not recommend being BFF or inlove fast, but we were best friends very quickly, even if I do not know how it happened, and six months later ~ once out of very hot/cold relationships with other people, we went for coffee.

All I know is that he had feelings for me. At first a crush, then deep feelings, but I did not reciprocate. I thought he was too young. He almost bowed out and I almost never spoke to him again. If he would have dropped off that site like he wanted, he was crushed, I would have never had what we have now! After we saw each other go through things and things within our other relationships we realised our friendship and what we had was wayyy too precious to let slip away and we made a vow.

A few months later... we were out of our bad relationships and together... happy.

I came to just accept it for what it is. I accept him for who he is and that seems to work well. I think we have found something very special.

Posted: Sunday, July 27, 2014 12:06:01 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 12/23/2013
Posts: 1
I found mine on IMVU! Which is like a virtual life gameEmbarassed
Posted: Monday, July 28, 2014 6:56:08 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/10/2014
Posts: 1,068
What's that? Never heard of that

Someone has to be the Villain
Posted: Monday, July 28, 2014 8:45:46 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/30/2014
Posts: 119
Location: United States
Irc a very long time ago
Posted: Thursday, July 31, 2014 12:21:23 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 916,468
I am a Dom and I found my sub Stac right here on Lush...
Posted: Friday, August 01, 2014 8:30:20 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 7/31/2014
Posts: 7
Location: United States
I found my Dom at college thanks to a friend who gave me the nickname of pet ;)
Posted: Friday, August 01, 2014 9:48:41 PM

Rank: Rainbow Warrior

Joined: 5/15/2014
Posts: 5,705
Location: Land of Legend, south of the Firelands, United Sta
When I was a domme, subs found me. They still do, but I don't have the time or the patience anymore.

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