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I guess from my earliest sexual days I was a bit confused about my sexuality. When there was a special female in my life, I was very happy. However at the same time I knew I also need a man for what only a man can give a woman.
Maybe I am still a bit confused, but now I now that that is me and my life. I really need both sexes in my life. The need ruined a marriage, with a really good guy, when it became as obvious to him as it was too me that I would always have a girl in my life or maybe two.
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No I have never had any doubts. Acceptance of who I am is very important to me.
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I've had doubtd from the first man I touched. Was a LONG time ago, but something just didn't feel quite right. Probably the family and social conditioning that gender is clear and seperate than more than 2 and fluid. But this is how it is now. Don't like guys. I like girls and gurls. I'm a transbien, so to speak.
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I suspect we all do at some point, straight, gay, bi or pan. Maybe not everybody, but most people I should think.
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no doubts at all. i know i am bisexual and love girl so much, but i dont think i could do without a cock or two.
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Being raised in a church-going homophobic family I have had insecurities and doubt from the start. Hard to not have doubt when homosexuality and heroin addiction are one in the same.
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All the time until about a year ago.
As Red said in the Shawshank Redemption.....
"Terrible thing, to live in fear"
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I have never had any doubts. I started with guys when I was younger, partly because sexual play was easier between my buddy and I. We both were hot for women, but our girlfriends lack of willingness to have intercourse with us (they'd do everything else) drew us to having intercourse with each other. As long as I can remember I have been attracted to both men and women, and remember early on fantasizing about both. I'm not sure if we even had a label for being bisexual back then.
Being 50 I am from a generation where homosexuality, let alone bisexuality, was very much taboo and out of the mainstream when I was growing up. When I started college and met my boyfriend is when I remember starting to identify myself as bisexual. We had many friends in the 80's come out of the closet and live openly gay. The odd thing we found was that the gay community we knew in college was not very tolerant of bisexuality; we often were told that we were in denial of being gay. Not so.
In college when I lived with my boyfriend we would often lay in bed together after sex and discuss us getting married, to women, having families, and continuing our bi relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 31 years and my wife for 30. He has been with his wife nearly as long. We were very fortunate that we met ladies that were interested in exploring bisexuality, and today they both would describe themselves as bisexual without any reservations.
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No, I have ever had any doubts about my Sexuality.
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To me, The whole of life is an/a series of experiments. if you enjoy it and it doesn't hurt others (or the like the way it hurt) do it as you please. if you don't then don't keep doing it. personally, i was attracted to a friend of mine and i knew he was bi. one night we fooled around and i enjoyed it. this is how i learned about my sexuality. i prefer pussy to cock but i do like cock. Do i doubt my sexuality? no, its got currents like the ocean and i flow with them. no doubt, or guilt, or shame. this is human nature and fighting it wont make it go away.   
my witty cum-back is on its way
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nice thread, somehow helped me. I'm one of those who are still in the stage of being confused with sexuality. How can I find peace, if inside me I can't have peace. 
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Had my doubts at first but I had friends like Angels who were more then happy to accept me :) My friends are the ones I had my first threesome with (my bestie and her boyfriend) :P
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nope, women are lovely sexy and exotic creatures. Men are great protectors and wonderful companions. the hard part is just finding the good ones
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never had any doubts, in fact i can easily like either gender as long as they come up to my mental image of beauty!
if, 'to be or not to be' is the question - then how is E=MC^2?
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struggled with that uncertainty a little a while back, i was just so drawn to this couple who were friends of mine and i wound up asking to kiss them both fortunately for me they obliged
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All the time. I'm a bisexual who wavers on the sexuality spectrum; most days I prefer men, some days I really don't want cock.  Took me a while to identify as bisexual; for a couple of months this year I thought I was a lesbian. 
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I guess I would have to say that I had my doubts at times. **Content removed by moderator for violating Lush terms & conditions.**
As I got older I became curious and didn't do anything with a guy until after I was discharged from the military. However, I do love both cock and pussy, but I prefer pussy over cock. There's just nothing like the velvety smoothness of a hot wet pussy encasing my cock deep inside.
But when I do have desires now to be with a man, I love to bottom and feel his cock deep inside of me. I can come when a man is initially penetrating me.
So yeah, I'm bisexual and have no doubts about it at all.
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I have never had any doubts nor confusion, I like both men (70%) and women (30%).
I am very open to advances from either, or talking-up either sex.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
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I have admitted to myself today, that i am bi. I love women, but sometimes a being with a man is a good thing. Yes, my mind being in this has ruined a great relationship. Hopefully i can find me a good woman who understands this herself.
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I have never had any doubts of my sexuality. Being bisexual has never confused me - others yes - but never me.
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There was a time in my mid 20's when I openly called myself bi. That was before I had fooled around with any guys. Since then, I've fooled around with men more than a couple of times. Never seems to do all that much for me. For years I've referred to myself as straight but that hasn't felt completely right.
I definitely notice men and feel attractions. As far as porn goes, I like watching straight porn but I always want the dudes to be as hot as the women. I tend towards those female friendly porn clips. I also like videos of guys with hot bodies jerking off.
I don't feel quite bi enough to call myself bi, but something is there for sure.
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i identify myself as bi-sexual, and yeah, it shifts from time to time - right now it'd be more accurate to say i'm a lesbian with occasional bi-sexual tendencies - at another point in my life it would have been more of a straight girl with bi-sexual tendencies - i'm sure it will shift again towards the middle at some point. or not. :)
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I can only tell you about me....I am 62 yrs old, raised in the Bible belt, in strict upbringing.........
I can never remember being not bi......hope that makes sense.....When I saw the first naked male, I knew then, I wanted to explore his body.....I wanted to touch his prick, and suck it......and touch his rear........I can still see that image in my mind today........an uncut hairy prick.........wow, did I want it.
Well, I learned quickly, that sharing that with anyone in my circle was a wrong thing to do....I got blasted big time for even mentioning that desire........and the same in school.........and also church....But none of that changed what I wanted and felt.....Even as I was told that was wrong, and I had to hide my wants of bisex, I still fantasized of it........and practiced it.........and still do
I clasify myself equally drawn to men and women.........I still remember the first female I saw naked.......and the same result as the first naked male........instant want and desire.
So as I went along in life, I played the good heterosexual guy, but in the times alone, lusting for men........
I have always loved older men and women.........and still do........love looking at all the guys and gals with the sags and wrinkles........but as far as being bisexual, it is all I know..........
And still at 62, I still look at both men and women......
Acutally threesome is a very interesting thought..........smile
So I am a 62 yr old guy who enjoys it all........It is harder to find now, but when you do,,,,,,,,,oh my
If you want to chat about it, I am always open.......but I am bi, so if that offends, go somewhere else......smile and enjoy life........it is too short to let others rule and ruin your day......
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Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can.
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I have never had doubts about myself...I doubt stringers that claim to be. Why should anyone have to say...labels are for canned goods at the market.
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I have never had doubts about myself...I doubt stringers that claim to be. Why should anyone have to say...labels are for canned goods at the market.
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HotBttmInBriefs wrote:
I can definitely relate to that.
I love sex with both but so far for me sex with men has lacked an emotional or romantic connection that I felt with women.
My current fuck buddy of 3 years is a little different in that we have been friends for over 30 years but only fuck buddies the last 3. But even then it is just sex.
I can relate to what you are saying. However at this point in my life I can't seem to form an emotional or romantic connection with either.
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As for the topic at hand No I never had any doubt. Fear of people close to me finding out, Yes. I accepted who I was at an early age & was fine with it. Too bad the rest of our society can't accept it. 
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annatoys1 wrote:Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can. This post is so nice on so many levels. You tried something that you hadn't even thought about, and yes the beer pong would have helped. But you let it happen and enjoyed it. I think too many people should relax and experiment a little, if they want to. I don't mean everyone should try it, but if you are enjoying something, let your inhibitions go and just enjoy the moment.
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annatoys1 wrote:Normal thoughts on the subject. Im straight n female. But very recently I was out with friends at club. We ended up at house to play beer pong. After all that was over I went to bed and my friend was staying too. She got in bed with me naked and started playing with me and I acted passed out for a little bit. It was really confusing because I didn't want her to stop. I opened my legs wide and she asked me if I want it to stop. I whispered to her I was wondering why I was so excited by a girl but I wanted to see how it feels. I asked her to do anything else that she wants to me. I let her go for it and she got me to orgasm over and over. I even got a few more just trying new things to her. I am straight but I am so glad I got to know what it was like. Eating a female pussy was the best. I think of it to play with myself as much as I can.
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