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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
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Location: Lincoln Park, United States
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This was just a random question that popped in my mind, so i decided to make it a topic lol.
The world is full of Masters and slaves and so few are known, all to different extents than others. so my question(s) to you: Would/Could you see yourself in a master/slave relationship? If so, which would you want to be and why?
"I ‘accidentally’ wrapped my hand over my pitched tent. “Trying to cover it up” I lied to myself. Only to be rewarded by chills rocketing down my spine. Fuck! I needed to cum now! ""Wasted Time" by
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Rank: Gentleman Master
Joined: 3/6/2013
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Location: God's Deep Freezer
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Um....
Banner below is a clickable link!
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 11/20/2012
Posts: 39
Location: Italy
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I top. I already top, but I'm a very considerate, loving, tender top. I even help with the washing and the laundry and the groceries...
...but if I say "wrists" I expect wrists, not frowns.
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Rank: Lurker
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Is this a trick question?
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Rank: Wild at Heart
Joined: 4/3/2010
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Location: California
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Quote:The world is filled with pimps and hoes
We'll just talk about those I knows
The world is mine, can't you see
I'm just trying to be all I can be
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Rank: Lurker
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telling you I am a slave should answer both questions.
as for why it comes naturally to me
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yes for sure...i am a slave
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Yes
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Yes .
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Rank: Alpha Blonde
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Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 7,559
Location: Your dirty fantasy
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No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting. A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 2/16/2011
Posts: 757
Location: United States
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I've spent the last forty years with a control freak ...
Does that count?
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Rank: Forum Guru
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Posts: 274
Location: United States
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Maybe
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 1/12/2013
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Location: United States
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Yes and have done so many time with me as the submissive.
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Rank: Detention Seeker
Joined: 8/17/2010
Posts: 1,459
Location: Over your Knee Screaming and Kicking!, United King
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Yes have done will do and love to. 
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 5/30/2013
Posts: 114
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Power-exchange is pretty exciting. It gives a little spice to the relationship. I'd definitely try it with my partner if given the opportunity.
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 11/15/2012
Posts: 56
Location: Lincoln Park, United States
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redhot363236 wrote:I've spent the last forty years with a control freak ...
Does that count? noooo, i dont think that counts, it has to be enjoyed as well lol
"I ‘accidentally’ wrapped my hand over my pitched tent. “Trying to cover it up” I lied to myself. Only to be rewarded by chills rocketing down my spine. Fuck! I needed to cum now! ""Wasted Time" by
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 12/1/2006
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I don't prefer the term slave. But D/s, yes, absolutely.
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Rank: Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
Joined: 2/10/2012
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Location: Vancouver
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GentWithHandcuffs wrote:Would/Could you see yourself in a master/slave relationship? If so, which would you want to be and why? Fuck no!! That's why one hires housekeepers/cleaners. For me, a relationship is an exchange of "power" in the bedroom and shared "power" throughout the rest of the relationship - if it's not like this, it is an egocentric dynamic that is highly narcissistic. I am not interested in playing those games. No one is the master of me, except me.
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Rank: Lurker
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No...Though I'm a Dom my preference is for lighter BDSM. I have no interest in anyone being my slave.
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To humor a woman I was attracted too maybe, but I'm just NOT into pain; simple as that.
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Rank: Evil Metalhead Dude
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Location: My Own Personal Hell, United States
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 11/18/2013
Posts: 881
Location: the nunnery, United States
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no no one ...EVER will have that power..or control over me not even for pleasure but those who do enjoy
" smile..it is the second best thing to do with your LIPS!"
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 11/13/2011
Posts: 1,519
Location: Canada
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Dancing_Doll wrote:No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting.
A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me. Took the words right out of my mouth.
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Rank: Lurker
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In the bedroom I'm a submissive all the time. Lifestyle not so much. Perhaps a tiny little bit but no.
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I have but more now it is playing around and having fun. I found the D role a bit exhausting. I tried the s role and I suck at it.
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Rank: Forum Guru
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Location: Curled up in front of a beautiful fire
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Dancing_Doll wrote:No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting.
A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me. Ditto!
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Rank: Lurker
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Love being a sub in the br. But, everywhere else....I'm in charge.
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i would do it, in fact im looking to be in one ill be the slave or master. id really like to have a mistress though
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Rank: Lurker
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I'd love to ;) I wanna try everything! I wanna have pleasure :) What is this life if there is not even a little bit enjoyment? ;)
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Rank: Ping Kong
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Posts: 5,029
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Dancing_Doll wrote:No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting.
A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me. Same here.
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