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Joined: 5/18/2012 Posts: 21,900 Location: Under The Blanket My Sweet Cheeks
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In all honesty, I would not sell myself because I personally think it's very degrading. Also, if I needed the money and what not I still wouldn't do it. If I did that I would feel guilty and can not look at myself the same again.
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Joined: 11/14/2010 Posts: 858 Location: Massachusetts, United States
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Certainly not because I needed the money so it wouldn't count. I turn down offers of legal work at a rather higher rate than top hookers get so I can't see the question occurring. Saying, what if you needed the money results in a nonsense question, what if you needed the money so badly, etc. It depends on how you interpret the question. And fallen men aren't quite in the same class as fallen women, are they?
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I don't think it's degrading IF you play the game proper, if you can not play proper it can be degrading cause customers take over and will play their games. You always need to be in charge, you are the one that plays the piano, the customers must follow ;) And if they don't want to follow/ listen, you'll need to make them follow...that can be fun but also can be a hard job. But often it is degrading I agree, especially since a few years there are MANY problems in the prostitution over here, too many girls are working against their will, they got here by human trafficking and are completaly 'property' of the guys who force them to do it. Disgusting and very sad. Over here it is not illegal by the way. lhb1989 wrote:In all honesty, I would not sell myself because I personally think it's very degrading. Also, if I needed the money and what not I still wouldn't do it. If I did that I would feel guilty and can not look at myself the same again. My newest story: Monica's Birthday turns into an unexpected orgyLessons from a Naugthy Nurse: Scott learns all about oral sex from his nurse
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Joined: 11/4/2012 Posts: 531 Location: wellington, New Zealand
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I think the nurse has got it totally correct.Id sure do it 4 in the right circumstances&if i was a lady,Id make a job of it&enjoy as much as i could,y not?
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Yes I think I could. But I'd have to be attracted (if only a bit) to each client, plus I don't come cheap ... so I seriously doubt I'd have many clients.
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Joined: 8/21/2009 Posts: 1,356 Location: Prague, Czech Republic
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I don't know if enough women would pay me enough to make it viable.:)
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Joined: 10/30/2010 Posts: 40 Location: West Midlands, United Kingdom
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Yep I would, but I would probably end up giving it all back as refunds. But more than happy to try lol.
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If I really neede the money I would do it but only after I've exercised every other option available to me.
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yes and would be excited
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Joined: 7/22/2011 Posts: 5,177 Location: Fantasy City, United States
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Once upon a time, in a city somewhere in the midwest US I was a stripper. And the opportunity for this type of thing was presented to me almost every 5 minutes. I never did, but came close once. I don't knock it but outside of role play, it's just not me.
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hum no i wouldnt
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Joined: 10/5/2012 Posts: 6,495
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No, I wouldn't.. I'd never forgive myself if I had to stoop so low..
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Joined: 8/12/2012 Posts: 10,959 Location: United States
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As a male who also happens to be a Dom. I feel a need to contribute. I will offer payment to those to whom I think there is a need. It will to those for whom there is a basis for a contract of service, i.e., a pro. I leave it to you to assign a label. I'm 66 and in all these years I "paid" for it once in Calgary, AL, on a business trip. Otherwise I have found most willing partners who did not expect $$ but were most willing to participate in several variations of "conventional" sex.
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Frank how did you know that was exactly the price I had in mind! That is with the understanding that what you are offering is not just one $100 and the rest Washington's.
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Joined: 11/30/2012 Posts: 231 Location: seattle, United States
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would i sell myself? yes and in many ways.
i would sell myself...
- short - high after i bought myself low - like hotcakes - to the highest bidder - door-to-door
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Joined: 8/14/2009 Posts: 6,154
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Sex is an intensely personal act, especially for women. They are actually allowing a man to physically enter their bodies, something that is quite different then how most men perceive sex. I have always been supportive and respectful of women who are able to own their sexuality and to do with it what they want without concerning themselves with the opinions of a male centered society. To me, those women who choose this life style are in many ways the most free of individuals, for they are able to put aside the judgments of society. If one must cast aspersions, it should fall on the men who pay for it, although they too are simply following their nature. To me, the only sad part of this are those women who are coerced or even forced into this work. Even that would not be so common if society would accept the reality that prostitution will never go away.
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Joined: 7/19/2011 Posts: 1,373 Location: In a cloud of flour, Canada
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 I found a way to make a few bucks...
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Joined: 12/3/2012 Posts: 1 Location: United States
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i have done it a few times and i did enjoy it very much.
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I would actually do this if i knew my family/friends wouldn't know and all clientele is STD free. I love sex and i think every cock is beautiful.
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Joined: 11/13/2011 Posts: 1,519 Location: Canada
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I think on some level, we all sell ourselves - the question is what's your currency
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Joined: 6/13/2011 Posts: 479 Location: Canada
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I'd do it in a dominatrix sense. As for sexual? I think the only way I'd do that is (don't mean to sound shallow) is it the guy is super hot; or if it was a glory hole situation. Not seeing the guy would make it a lot easier.
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I have actually sold myself once in return for a getting a higher pass mark in a-level history. I would willingly sell myself under certain conditions e.g. I would have to get to know the guy a bit first to make sure he's not psycho, he would need to wear a condom and also no fantasies or bdsm stuff.
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Joined: 8/12/2012 Posts: 10,959 Location: United States
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Condom no problem. The fantasy is now real time so no problem there. The BDSM is my lifestyle, but I've been a DOM for so long, that just being able to fuck you would be more than enough for me. There are a lot of willing partners out there that I don't need to ask more of anyone than they are willing to do. Now how do we get to know one another better...:) Oh yeah, no e-sex and South Whales isn't a stop on the subway. Such is life....Enjoy smexylucy.
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Joined: 12/3/2012 Posts: 28 Location: Waiting in your bed, United States
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BelleduJour wrote:I think on some level, we all sell ourselves - the question is what's your currency She has it right. For those that admonish others for trading sex for money should step back and look at themselves. Most women, at some point have done it. The pay just wasn't cash. It still amazes me that we have this site and forum and it's all about being open to sexual experiences, but yet people still think this is taboo. A grown woman, making an intelligent, informed decision to support her needs is somehow wrong....that astounds me. While it may not be for you, it doesn't make it wrong. But to answer the question...I haven't, in the traditional sense, and I don't know if I could. Not because I think it's wrong to accept money for it, but because I haven't had many partners and I don't know if I could be comfortable.
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Joined: 1/23/2012 Posts: 107 Location: Clearwater-St. Petersburg, United States
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 First of all I don't need the money I have a very successful husband who takes good care of me. Second, if I meet a handsome man that's interesting why wouldn't I do him for nothing. Anyway haven't all of us at one time of another gotten jewelry, clothes or an expensive gift from a man? Whether we like it or not girls we all are prostitutes in some way or another!
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Joined: 5/12/2010 Posts: 417 Location: On my cloud, United Kingdom
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HotWifeToni1 wrote: First of all I don't need the money I have a very successful husband who takes good care of me. Second, if I meet a handsome man that's interesting why wouldn't I do him for nothing. Anyway haven't all of us at one time of another gotten jewelry, clothes or an expensive gift from a man? Whether we like it or not girls we all are prostitutes in some way or another! Following this line of thought, are all men prostitutes in one way or another as well?
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No. I would say we are all "Johns"....:)
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Joined: 1/1/2013 Posts: 89 Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Oh, YES!! I did it more than once. The first time was whole hubby was away. A guy took me to a motel where we spent the night and in the morning i was in bed alone and on the bedside table was a $500.00. After that it was a lot easier. Hubby would freak if he knew though.
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